Sexy talk..need advice tips....

[romanticman]

Guys I am learnng here steadily but need some direction on this topic. How do we initiate dirty talking to get a woman more excited? Im not sure how to do this ...any advice please?

 

[todays_news]

before your in bed or when in your in bed?

 

[romanticman]

Before bed. I am wondering what things to say to take it up a notch to heat things up. It seems a bit awkward because Im not sure how to subtely start,...what to say?

 

[Black Dog]

Not sure if you've read the DJ Bible or not, but there is a link on there that explains exactly how to start spicy convos! The key being talking about sex. Although double entendres and subtle (clever, not immature) innuendos work too dude.

But something I tried over the phone with one girl, was saying that in my Psychology class, my female teacher showed me a poll that recorded 60% of women saying they prefer sex on top, being able to control their own orgasms and all that....this was pure bullsh*t made up by me of course, no actual poll, but I am taking a Psychology class! = P The conversation sparked into life and it was the beginning of some of my most interesting exchanges with a girl.

If she takes the bait, thats a pretty good sign....you can end the convo with, "So if you and I had sex, would it be amazing? = D" Anything other than, "What..?" is a good answer! Those are my experiences.

 

[Ascyus]

Ok here is something u can do it never fails

Buy one of those really small asian drinks that is smaller than a can of coke. Drink it in front of her and she is bound to say something like "it is so small and cute".
And you can respond by saying "small and cute just like you"

Buy one of those really big 1.5 litre but not coke. I always get the 1.5 litre aloe vera drink. Pull it out in front of the girl and she is bound to say "wow thats so big!" Then u say "thanks i get that alot"

One time the girl i am going out with was eating these really small mandarins and she was like "look, i can put it all in my mouth" i gave her a weired look and she started giggling cuz well i will leave it at that

I dont recommend saying stuff like "nice shoes, wanna fvck?" unless u have established that she is alright talking like this but yeah introduce it gradually

 

[romanticman]

Thanks guys...

 

[Atom Smasher]

Use phrases that can be interpreted two ways:

"Your'e blowing it with me."
"That is truly a very penetrating question."
"Are you coming?"

These things seem to come quite easily to me, and I notice in my more AFC days I would actually try to avoid saying phrases like that because I was so repressed. When you do it, you can actually see a slight reaction in most women, as if they are thinking or processing it. Quite amusing.

Edit: Say these things completely straight. No sly smile or other acknowledgement of your play on words. She will do the internal work automatically, trust me. If you call attention to it you will dilute its power.