"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sexy Son Hypothesis - How Women Choose a Mate

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From Wikipedia

It has been shown that women prefer more masculine men during the fertile period of the menstrual cycle and more feminine men during other parts of the cycle.[10] This distinction supports the sexy son hypothesis, which posits that it is evolutionarily advantageous for women to select potential fathers who are traditionally masculine rather than the best caregivers.[11] Masculine facial features are characterized by a strong brow, a strong nose, a high forehead[citation needed] and a broad jaw whereas feminine features are less pronounced.
The sexy son hypothesis is a concept from evolutionary biology, proposed by P. J. Weatherhead and R. J. Robertson in 1979.[1] It posits that a female animal's optimal choice among potential fathers is a male whose genes will produce male offspring with the best chance of reproductive success. In particular, the sexy son hypothesis implies that a potential mate's capacity as a caregiver or any other direct benefits the male can offer the female (eg. nuptial gifts, good territory) are irrelevant to his value as potential father of the female's offspring...
...The sexy son hypothesis has been suggested as the origin of some aspects of human sexual behavior. In particular, it has been shown that human females are more attracted to traditionally masculine men ("cads") during the most fertile times of their menstrual cycles, and more attracted to relatively feminine men ("dads") during the remainder of the cycle. However, the methodology of these claims is disputed. [2] These observations have led to the conclusion that infidelity is a natural occurrence in women, and evolutionarily advantageous, on the grounds that it will enable them to secure both the best genes and the best caregiver for their offspring.[3][4]
Basically, it explains why women will fuk DJs and marry AFCs to raise the DJ's kids.


Sources:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexy_son_hypothesis
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So if you're not necessarily ugly, but less "masculine" looking, does that mean you got lesser chances?
 

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In other words...

Work out and build a nice body + have a career that you love that pays extremely well...

:rock:

Actually, I think it was Rollo who wrote up something really insightful regarding this that caught lot of heat over on MM forum. You should go look it up.

EDIT: Here it is http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=145693
 

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Women want a "MAN" Regardless of your body and bankroll. If women just want you for your hot body and money... Why be with a girl like that? She wouldn't love you. She would just love what you have.

Now, having a nice body and a good paying job is great. But, Only if it is for you!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Bat said:
In other words...

Work out and build a nice body + have a career that you love that pays extremely well...
The study didn't even discuss anything outside facial features IIRC.
 

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CapedCrusader08 said:
So if you're not necessarily ugly, but less "masculine" looking, does that mean you got lesser chances?
No, there have been a scientific study on this. The conclusion was that women prefer men that were less masculine looking for both long-term and short-term relationships.

While men prefer more feminine looking women for both long-term and short-term relationships. No $hit!
 

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duh! since the study says that they look for masculine men during the fertil times, you are better off being feminine looking, cause you are the one she will be looking most of the month...
 

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True. Deep inside were still animals, just...following our instincts.
 
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