"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sexy Hot babes Inside

612_Da_Playa

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Now that I have everyone's attention. I want to talk about a serious matter. Lately I've thought thought if you were good-looking you had to be all serious, and girls will flock to you. Bradd Pitt kinda stuff. I haven't had any results from this approach. Now, people think I'm shy. I thought that being friendly would work but that seems weird to me that the friendly guy gets all the girls. When I think of a mack-daddy, I envision that laid-back, super cool kinda guy. I mean should you be serious or should you be social. What are everyone's ideas on this matter?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Damian

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You have to mak yourself known. Go out and socialize. Talk with groups and make people laugh. Sooner or later the girls will come flocking to you if you play your game right. Maintain a confident attitude and try to portray yourself as the center of attention. Everything else will fall into place afterwards.

-Damian
 

[]D [] []V[] []D

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Originally posted by 612_Da_Playa
I mean should you be serious or should you be social. What are everyone's ideas on this matter?
my idea on this matter is that

DONT POST A FAKE NAME JUST TO GET PEOPLES ATTENTION

and...

my idea is for you to read the bible before you post here!
 

wavejams007

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Re: Re: Sexy Hot babes Inside

Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
my idea on this matter is that

DONT POST A FAKE NAME JUST TO GET PEOPLES ATTENTION

and...

my idea is for you to read the bible before you post here!
You're just mad cuz you got fooled.:p
 

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Everyone has there own style. If you want to be serious or friendly, its up to you. Experiment and do what you like.


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you act all friendly you´re showing that you´re not a stuck up arrogant motherfvcker just cause you´re goodlooking, and girls will be willing to take a chance to talk to you/make eye contact etc cause they know youre cool and will probably not make them feel stupid or ignore her(cause you´re a friendly guy) if they approach you. If you act serious, they probably think youre just minding your own business and dont want to be bothered, so they wont take their chances of talking with you cause they think you´re not in the mood to talk or that you´ll probably ignore them or something and make them feel rejected. It up to you, just pick the one that suits your personality the best. Im not saying that seriuos guys dont get *****, its just that if you act more friendly girls will want to meet you cause you seem friendly, duh, and cause they know that you wont reject them or anything if they say something stupid and wont make them feel like an ass.
 

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Think talk show host mentality. If you dont have "abercrombie model" looks....you have to convey personality; such as demonstrating higher value, and getting herself to qualify to you.

That **** where the guy stands there and brushes hair....and all the girls flock to him is misleading AFC bull****.

I will outgame the greatest looking guy everytime with my superior game.

Its all game, personality, and alpha frames.

Love,
Smooth
 

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First off, I'm very upset with you for posting a fake title haha. Brad Pitt isn't always serious, infact Mr. Pitt is rarley serious, examples 12 Monkeys and Fight Club. My point, don't be a clown, but have a brightside.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The "serious guys" that you see in the movies are so good cause they ooze sexuality and everytime they communicate with a girl, they do it on a sexual level. Ive never seen anyone be able to do this in a social setting, you have to be more open and friendly. When you see the James Bond type guys, its always in a one on one setting where they seduce the girls and act very sexually. In public, you gotta be friendly and meet a lot of people so that you can get the girl you want one on one.
 
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