"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)

Heretolearn

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Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)

Gentlemen,

What is your take on this?

I generally try and have a complete check up regularly (every couple of years). It takes 5 minutes, you get a small needle in the arm (blood test) and pee in a cup (urine test).

Tests for most nasties.

The sexual health clinic thoroughly recommends it and actually says there is a Chlamydia outbreak where i live right now.


The doctor recommended condom use for the first 12 months of any 'relationship'.

Thoughts?


I guess my concern is that:

1) You will never really know if your partner cheated on you
2) There are many ways to get these diseases
3) Sexual partners are exponential. I.e even if the a virgin sleeps with another person (1) who has only been with one other person (2), then 2 may have been with millions of others.

Thoughts? How do you all approach this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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penkitten

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i thought you were suppose to get tested once a year when you suspect nothing wrong and anytime you think you may have caught something.
 

ER!C L!VE

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I choose to not live my life in fear. I'm playing and if the time comes, then I'll pay.

I get tested regularly and use protection only if I feel the girl is a slvt.

I've had HIV tests. The results were given by a gay dude who told me that most of the people who contract the AIDS virus are either IV drug users, blood transfusion receivers, males who have sex with other males and/or black. I don't fall into any of those categories. :cheer:
 

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I actually work at the medical school university hospital and you would be surprised the stuff that goes around. Scary as it is, but STDs ironically are becoming more frequent today. Despite greater interventions. It is highly recommended that you get tested at least ONCE A YEAR. Just because you feel you don't have, doesn't necessarily mean you don't. Remember, a chic giving you head can easily spread an STD on your prized area. Worst part, she might not even have symptoms, meaning you probably won't see any yourself until later on. Thus, it is always better to be safe than sorry. Remember the earlier you discover something the better. Last thing you want is to have something like that uncared for and full blown. All in all, just get tested!
 

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"$300 on red..."

I agree that it is amazing how pervasive this problem is. Just read the "Q and A" boards for a college infirmary. STDs are all over. And most people dont believe it till they get one.

And whats even worse is how many people will still sleep with someone else w/o telling them, just because they have no visible symptoms.

Really, every girl you tap is gamble. I would say most of the time, if you use your dome, the odds are in your favor. But that doesnt mean you cant lose. :(
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The results were given by a gay dude who told me that most of the people who contract the AIDS virus are either IV drug users, blood transfusion receivers, males who have sex with other males and/or black.


:rolleyes:
 

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I messed up once in my life raw dogged a chick the first night i met her. Freaked out got a huge panel of blood work done and all the other tests and came back clean. I will never, never raw dog a girl again unless ive been with her for over a year.
 
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