"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sexually conservative girl...?

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I've been talking to this one girl for a while now. I picked up on my mistakes with another girl and have been more sexual with this girl.

She teases me, I tease her. We talk about random things. I'm also doing some nice kino such as putting my arm around her, touching her hands, etc.

However, I've run into a little problem. Whenever I mention sexual subjects, she's either oblivious or conservative about it. For example, I talked about how it's good to see a girl's thong once in a while, and she's like "No, that's never good". I've made some sexual innuendos before too and it went over her head.

So my question is this: How can I advance sexually with a girl who is sexually conservative?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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YogurtSlinger

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Don't corrupt her. Find yourself a wh0re and move on to her.
 
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YogurtSlinger said:
Don't corrupt her. Find yourself a wh0re and move on to her.
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Truly. The sheer amount of energy you'll have to put into undoing 15+ years of "SEX IS BAD" conditioning isn't even close to worth it, if it's even possible. Go find a sexual girl and you will save yourself a great deal of frustration. Doesn't have to be the school wh0re, just a sexual being like yourself.
 
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Aldo said:
I've been talking to this one girl for a while now. I picked up on my mistakes with another girl and have been more sexual with this girl.

She teases me, I tease her. We talk about random things. I'm also doing some nice kino such as putting my arm around her, touching her hands, etc.

However, I've run into a little problem. Whenever I mention sexual subjects, she's either oblivious or conservative about it. For example, I talked about how it's good to see a girl's thong once in a while, and she's like "No, that's never good". I've made some sexual innuendos before too and it went over her head.

So my question is this: How can I advance sexually with a girl who is sexually conservative?
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Well if you have any notion that shes oblivious, I would just really try to make the sexual innuendos easier to catch and more obvious.

And the thong example you gave isnt too great. Of course she would say something like that, because NO girl wants her thong to be hanging out. Lol thats just common sense its not being conservative. When have you ever seen a chick purposely let her thong hang out? Never.

If you really want to find the truth over whether she is "conservative" or not, hang out with her and see how far you get.
 
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if you want sex find another girl. I had a girl like that once. Its just a total mess. Even if you get her to do some sexual stuff her guilt will kick in and shell blame you for corrupting her and forcing her to do things. It's just a can of worms not worth dealing with.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Had a similar case too...as much as i tried i didn't get a thing from her...had to let go and i'll suggest you do the same
 
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