sexualizing conversations

[Colin O'Brien]

Any tips on injecting sexual topics into conversation? I feel like its a good way to break the ice but I don't have a whole lot of experience so I talking about it doesn't come naturally to me.. I feel like the girl will get weirded out if I talk about sex in a conversation, any tips on how to make it more natural? Examples would be good.. thanks!

 

[Voice]

Usually I give little innuendos nothing blatant. I'm not a big fan of asking what the girl's favorite position is or if she likes giving head. Honestly if a girl started talking about sex openly like that I would lose all my respect for her. Then again if she's a ho I would understand.

For example one time this cute girl was walking past me in a skirt outside my dorm when it was in dead winter. All I did was blatantly check her out and with a big smile and ask "Dam, you ain't cold at all in that?" She blushed instantly and eyed me as she walked by with a big smile.

If a girl starts talking about some weird things she does I always say "jeez, you're a freak aren't you? It's ok so am I". It's subtle but it's definitely there. Sexualizing conversations are good, but they're the best when you add a little kino and some great eye contact.

 

[Allurre]

Start light, then go heavy.

Ask questions that first open up to a debate.

"Do you think it's right for a girl to complain if her man under performs in bed?"


Then... move on to steamier Q's like "So what is one fantasy you think all women share?"

Then... get even more personal.

 

[#41]

Humor always works best, I think. Keep the sexual references light and playful. The idea is to get her thinking about sex then move that to thinking about sex with you.

 

[rakishness]

True story

I was at a club with a friend of mine one night earlier this summer. We approached a group of girls in town for just that night. I overheard the convo my boy was having with the girl he was interested in. Randomly during the convo he blurts out "SEX"
She gave a blank stare and said :what about it?
He: It's a great thing.

He took that girl home that night. :crackup:

 

[Kevin Feng]

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/10/sexual-identity-less-talk-more-sex.html

check that out, it’ll help you transition from normal conversation into sexual conversation.

Actually, talking about sex as a normal topic should be something you’re comfortable with, girls actually will **** test you on this, if you end up being nervous about talking about sex, it’ll be a total DLV.

If you want to run successful pick up you need be comfortable with your sexuality, physically and verbally.