Sexualize conversations....turn talking into flirting. Need tips.

[Babnik]

So, you are sitting at a coffee table, you let conversation flow and the topic is traveling. You can have your eye contact, your deep voice, and etc. but the conversation has no subtle sexual messages in it.

Then, its not flirting at all, is it???

Like...you can spend the whole conversation like that and its really like friend talk without any sexual TENSION!

Like, there needs to be sexual innuendo in there. Do you agree with that or do you think that only body language has to create that sexual TENSION? Like with kino and seductive eye contact?

I remember that every time I got turned on was when a girl put a sexual innuendo in there herself.

Like, the other night this girl brought me my drink and said "I put a roofee in there". It turned me on big time! Like, it was something that created sexual tension...


Give me tips and advice on that? How do you get better at that?

 

[Kev07]

i duno, kino really does it for me

 

[insidious]

Dunno man, anyone can interject SEX into a conversation, doesn't take a rocket scientist to do that, however,

if you do it slyly and with mysterious subtlety, it's so much more powerful. That, I believe, is something that doesn't just happen.

Cleverness and instinct are hard to teach...some things are best left to maturity and experience, and even a good dose of intelligence. Of course, if you're going after chicks who are dense or inexperienced, it's just less work you gotta do LOL

 

[oakraiderz2]

For me, teasing works wonders. Joking back and forth can create sexual tension. Add a touch of kino and youre golden.

 

[Bible_Belt]

yes, teasing is golden

 

[Babnik]

For me, teasing works wonders. Joking back and forth can create sexual tension. Add a touch of kino and youre golden.

What kind of teasing are you talking about?

 

[Babnik]

Impatient AFC thread bump b/c I'm going on a date in 15 minutes!

 

[Sean O]

What kind of teasing are you talking about?

Surely you jest...

Teasing is teasing, man. Just make good natured-fun of her for random stuff. For example, I was talking with one chick recently, and she was telling me how she was tired from baseball practice. I then proceeded to make fun of her for getting tired from jogging and doing girl push-ups. She protested, explaining all the intense drills they did. I refused to believe her, telling her to "stop trying to save face and make terms with the fact that you're a wuss". She started playfully hitting me, saying "You're such a jerk!" with mega flirtatious eyes, so I "fought" back by tickling her, then pinning her by her hands against the wall. I then said, "See, this is how I know you didn't do those drills. You barely put up a fight at all just now." Then she said, "You're so aggressive!", to which I replied, "What can I say? I like to dominate." Then I winked at her, and she gave me one of those "fvck me right now you bad boy" looks. I would have gone for the kiss had her friends not been standing right there... lol .

See? Nothin' to it, man. Just don't be afraid to step out of your usual comfort zone, and as long as you don't go so far as to near-rape her, you'll do fine.