With non-virgin females you're permitted to emit a massive aura of sexuality and get it away with it because they've had sex, and they know they love it.
However, suppose there's this Catholic, virgin 20 year old female that I've went on two dates with. I've gone for the kiss, but what level of sexuality is acceptable before I pass the breaking point and come off as a total pervert? For the first two to three weeks of dating, is it safer to avoid sexual conversation?
I don't want to come off as completely asexual. Nor do I want to come off as a homosexual. We are all sexual creatures by nature, but this girl is a virgin. My theory is that virgin girls are more reluctant to exuberate sexuality. Being overly sexual will possibly scare them off or impose that my only goal is getting in their pants.
Truthfully, my ultimate goal is not to get in her pants. Rather, she possesses intelligence and a personality that I'm most attracted to, and I see her as a candidate for a relationship with substance. Girls with brains are rare IMO.
Physically, I've incorporated kinesthetics, but conversationally, I am reluctant to introduce a big dose of sexual innuendo and sexual talk. Her being a virgin has tainted my usual, sexual DJ mindset. How do I proceed?
However, suppose there's this Catholic, virgin 20 year old female that I've went on two dates with. I've gone for the kiss, but what level of sexuality is acceptable before I pass the breaking point and come off as a total pervert? For the first two to three weeks of dating, is it safer to avoid sexual conversation?
I don't want to come off as completely asexual. Nor do I want to come off as a homosexual. We are all sexual creatures by nature, but this girl is a virgin. My theory is that virgin girls are more reluctant to exuberate sexuality. Being overly sexual will possibly scare them off or impose that my only goal is getting in their pants.
Truthfully, my ultimate goal is not to get in her pants. Rather, she possesses intelligence and a personality that I'm most attracted to, and I see her as a candidate for a relationship with substance. Girls with brains are rare IMO.
Physically, I've incorporated kinesthetics, but conversationally, I am reluctant to introduce a big dose of sexual innuendo and sexual talk. Her being a virgin has tainted my usual, sexual DJ mindset. How do I proceed?