sexuality question

[MyBloodyValentine]

i know this is going to be a ridiculous question...but how do i "become" sexual. im guessing this is one of those questions that no one can answer for me, but it is something i am struggling with. when i go to the clubs i have no problems going on the dancefloor, approaching people and talking with them, and having a great night every time. but im having problems making it sexual. I read in pook's posts and others that the "key" to becoming a don juan is unlocking my sexuality. well...how do i do this? what does a sexual man act like? what should i look like/say/do? can anyone just give me some examples on the differences between sexual and non sexual? does it just mean making the move or not? or like grabbing the chick and dancing..? i know another important thing is ACTION.

ya...this may be stupid, but any help would be greatly appreciated.

thanks guys!

 

[Ease]

start slapping girls on the ass as they walk past

make dirty sex jokes

listen to dirty rap songs.

tell dirty sex stories, exagarate a lot

lots of ****y funny with dirty and flirty jokes/comments.

if your dancing, be super confident and playful, and grab her ass and pull her close. Key to this, super confident and playful.

if anyone calls you out on the generally dirty and disgusting behaviour like above^, be proud of it.


*by dirty i mean anythig that is sex related and verging on disgusting. eg. 'i would *** on that sluts face so hard' or 'that bltch wants my dlck in her ass right now i can tell' etc.

thats not to be said directly to the girl, its more of the correct mindset to be in. Its playful, confident and sexual. You can tone it down accordingly.

 

[MyBloodyValentine]

bumm..p?

 

[radiodude]

Ease made some good points but I want to add some things in as far as what sexual means in general.

When sexuality is talked about, often it's in the context of teaching a man to make a move or not be ashamed of taking aggresive sexual control of a relational situation.

A better way to think of it would be sexual confidence. A man that is sexual eminates it from his individuality (masculine) to his conscious actions toward the woman. (Initiating physical contact)

It's really a matter of communicating that you desire her and arousing desire in her back.