"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sexual vs Creepy

2crudedudes

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I gotta give it to Rescue, his topic is such a hot button issue, his original thread is going on 9 pages, and now there's a second one.

And he still won't back down. He still claims whoever disagrees with him is a chump or pvssified, when in reality he's delusional.

Look Rescue, its cool that you feel sexually liberated and that jerkin it in front of a chick that doesn't wanna bang you takes balls and all. But quit talking sh1t about those who disagree with you.

I won't say its creepy, I think that word has made this discussion convoluted. But its not a victory and its definitely not something I will be striving for by coming to this website.

To me, if a chick doesn't touch my d1ck, I recognize the situation and call it a day. To you, jerking it twice in front of her is satisfactory.

To each their own.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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REPEM

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Rescue Mission said:
You have got to be blind - it takes a special pvssified kind of feminine guy to blatantly not read specific parts of posts that explain the situation PRECISELY, and to continue to ignore the facts that I repeated maybe what, like 5 times already.
Okay, so what did you get out of the situation that an obese 50 year old slob couldn't get at a strip club?
 

crossboss

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CuriousGirl said:
I can't think of an example, except pestering a boyfriend for sex when he's not in the mood. But even then she wouldn't be a "creep" he'd be the one getting stick for it, whereas if it was the other way round he'd be moaned at about it. I'm pretty sure I could go up to a guy and say "I'd love to rim your ass" and even if he hated the idea a girl would still get the "kinky ;)" reaction whereas a guy would get a much more sour reaction.

I suppose its just because of our culture around girls guys and dating. In middle eastern cultures girls could be a little closer to 'creepy' but even then it's more associated with being slutty/impure/unclean which in western society is still a thing, just much less so.

Yeah, I guess parents are also more strict on their daughters and well and don't condone dating guys they don't approve of. If a guy for some reason was pressured by a girl for sex, he could avoid it. However, girls have to watch out because, guys are naturally bigger than girls. Even, though the problem, with that is that the good guys, get left out.
 

REPEM

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REPEM said:
Okay, so what did you get out of the situation that an obese 50 year old slob couldn't get at a strip club?
hey Rescue, I couldnt help but notice you ignored this comment. What's wrong buddy?
 
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