"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sexual Tension with the Innocent Nice Girl?

Yookiwooki

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How can a DJ add a real sexual undertone with one of those really innocent nice girls. I'm talking about a 17 year old girl who seems like she dosent even know what sex is.

Is it really the same as with other girls? Should you be more sexually agressive? Less sexually agressive? Is she really even that innocent inside, or can she still be horny while acting completley innocent?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In Motion

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Yookiwooki said:
Is she really even that innocent inside, or can she still be horny while acting completley innocent?
Oh yes she can. Trust me. A LOT of girls are bigger perverts then us guys. They are just really good at hiding it. Now in this case it's hard to find out unless you dig deeper (which I really wouldn't advise until you get to know her better).
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Lol she's not innocent . Girls are NOT innocent .

You can add some tension with kino . Most of you guys see kino as a " light punch on her arm " but thats not what makes her attracted to you .

You gotta hold her all the time , touch her and tell her all the time you are sexual being . Make her comfort a lil bit than use EVOLUTION PHASE SHIFT if you dont know any other routine that involves kissing , biting and these things .From that you can escalate and if u make her comfort enough this can lead to SEX :D .
 

Nighthawk

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Yookiwooki said:
Is she really even that innocent inside, or can she still be horny while acting completley innocent?
Girls are experts at this. Hell, Nice Guys do a pretty good job too, but for different reasons.
 

playa99

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Yeah sometimes the most innocent looking and/or acting girl can be the horniest, you've just gotta be a DJ and make the moves and everything will be fine ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GaryUranga

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Ive done sexual tension with an innocent girl who I was together with for a couple of months, anyways it takes less to start it, but it feels really good when its on, it was pretty ****ing cute to see her face when we were vibing like that
 
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