"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sexual Tension Question? Tightening up my game

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I like to always improve on my relationships. The problem I have with sexual tension. I read different articles from different people about maintaining sexual tension and how women will love you for it. I usually remain calm and relax about sex until my girl teases me and I just want to jump inside. I think about sex all the time. Sometimes she will tease me but really doesn't want to have sex. My question is even if she sexually tease me should I not go for it. Should I just wait everytime until she throws me down on the bed and has sex with me. Will it be better for her and me in the long run. Since they say rejection increases sexual desire...Do I keep rejecting her until she jumps my bone......Any comments or suggestions....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Boner da Stoner

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DUDE!!!

how does your girl tease you? you have to tease her back, but throw in some innuendo about her wanting sex from you and YOU know it[;)] make her want it more is what I say sexual tension is.

Keep exploring with her, when she mentions anything sexual, even to her friends, rub her back, her shoulder, bump her and stare in her eyes.

When you are alone, pretend to rush, tell her you can barely wait to have her...

keep coming up with ideas that will leave her saying "GOOOOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDD he is SO SEXY!!!(grrr)"
 
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