"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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spesmilitis

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Basic kino is easy (brushing of hands, touching shoulder, brushing her hair back to see an earring)

With the more 'sexual' kino, im not so good at (holding hands, touching of hips/thighs/butt, kissing/making out)

Anyone know any good posts on this? Maybe an example date of kino escalation.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"sexual" kino should come natrually after you get comfortable with someone. Touching of the hips can be used in the seduction process too, but the others on your list are more for LTRs.

Is this with someone you just met?

Unless she's a slvt, there's no need to be all creepy and start holding hands, grabbin her butt, and and kissing her if it's just someone you're talking to for the first time at a bar. Sexual kino breeds from intamacy. If it ever feels forced or uncomfortable, you're not ready to do it.
 
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wrender said:
"sexual" kino should come natrually after you get comfortable with someone. Touching of the hips can be used in the seduction process too, but the others on your list are more for LTRs.

Is this with someone you just met?

Unless she's a slvt, there's no need to be all creepy and start holding hands, grabbin her butt, and and kissing her if it's just someone you're talking to for the first time at a bar. Sexual kino breeds from intamacy. If it ever feels forced or uncomfortable, you're not ready to do it.
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Ding!

To add, kissing is an art learnt from experience, holding hands is usually for those special moments (unless you grab her hand and lead her somewhere), and hips, for a kiss or a brush of them to tease, thigh, when things are getting hot, butt is again, for hotness, but it's useful as a tease tactic (purposely kick her ass)
 
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alright, some im thinking just doing the light 'n' easy kino untill the first kiss. Then alittle moderate kino (hand on knee/hips/waist, holding hands) till we're isolated at one our houses, then go for a kiss and ease it into a makeout session.
Continue with moderate kino in public, and in private, bump it up to alittle more intimate kino that leads to sex.
 
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