“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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spesmilitis

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Basic kino is easy (brushing of hands, touching shoulder, brushing her hair back to see an earring)

With the more 'sexual' kino, im not so good at (holding hands, touching of hips/thighs/butt, kissing/making out)

Anyone know any good posts on this? Maybe an example date of kino escalation.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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"sexual" kino should come natrually after you get comfortable with someone. Touching of the hips can be used in the seduction process too, but the others on your list are more for LTRs.

Is this with someone you just met?

Unless she's a slvt, there's no need to be all creepy and start holding hands, grabbin her butt, and and kissing her if it's just someone you're talking to for the first time at a bar. Sexual kino breeds from intamacy. If it ever feels forced or uncomfortable, you're not ready to do it.
 
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wrender said:
"sexual" kino should come natrually after you get comfortable with someone. Touching of the hips can be used in the seduction process too, but the others on your list are more for LTRs.

Is this with someone you just met?

Unless she's a slvt, there's no need to be all creepy and start holding hands, grabbin her butt, and and kissing her if it's just someone you're talking to for the first time at a bar. Sexual kino breeds from intamacy. If it ever feels forced or uncomfortable, you're not ready to do it.
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Ding!

To add, kissing is an art learnt from experience, holding hands is usually for those special moments (unless you grab her hand and lead her somewhere), and hips, for a kiss or a brush of them to tease, thigh, when things are getting hot, butt is again, for hotness, but it's useful as a tease tactic (purposely kick her ass)
 
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alright, some im thinking just doing the light 'n' easy kino untill the first kiss. Then alittle moderate kino (hand on knee/hips/waist, holding hands) till we're isolated at one our houses, then go for a kiss and ease it into a makeout session.
Continue with moderate kino in public, and in private, bump it up to alittle more intimate kino that leads to sex.
 
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