"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sexual Innuendos

Quartz

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Are they good or bad?

Do they make you look like a pervert or they're fine when used right?

I heard the later, but I'm not sure. Can anyone confirm that?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In-your-end-o
 

TheEnergizer

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hahaha thats EXACTLY the first thing i thought captainJ. lol scrubs.
 

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TheEnergizer said:
hahaha thats EXACTLY the first thing i thought captainJ. lol scrubs.
Gotta love the Todd.

To the OP, sexual innuendos are brilliant, another great tool for the DJ. It allows you to escalate a conversation sexually and innocently. It's especially great when you turn what she says into meaning she wants to fvck you, and then playing repulsion.
 
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