"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Cesare Cardinali
Always Learning,

How old are you and this chick? It all depends on your age and experience level. From what you wrote her numbers are no big deal and as you get older this situation will only get worse.
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I'm 24 and she's 23.

I understand that any girl you date will have a past, so that isn't really the problem here. The focus of this post is more on learning how to think about the situation so that it won't bother you too much. There's been some good advice on this post that has helped me, and that I think will help others too.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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25,000

Every woman you meet can say-- 'I had a life before I met you'.

So?

If she told you some things then you will have to deal with it.

One thing to remember here, you are the one sleeping with her now, not some dude from her past.

The real red flag with her is that $25,000 in credit card debt.

my 2 cents

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