md3sign
Senior Don Juan
This has worked once for me brilliantly and doing the opposite failed miserably. When the topic of previous partners comes up in the form of a number, you can do one of two things:
1) be honest
2) lie in a DJ way
1) Being honest did NOT work for me. It doesn't matter if you've slept with 3 or 5 or 50 chicks. If a girl asks you and you tell her straight up, she forms an opinion about. I dated a 20 year old virgin early this year for 5 months (up until May). I was an AFC many times and we never did it. In my defense I did get sweet sweet head almost every day, which to me is almost as good and sometimes better. Point is, I specifically remember one time her telling me what a bad person I was for sleeping with all those girls and what a good person she was. Now some of the stuff she said was really disrespectful and eventually I walked out on her, which completely threw her off and made her crumble but by then it was too late - this was the first LTR I can proudly say I broke off. What I'm trying to say is that the truth is not only irrelevant, but I don't see how it could possibly work in your favor.
2) Not telling her, in a DJ way, WORKS. I "sort of" dated this girl a couple months ago for about 3 weeks (we went out a few times and got it on twice). The second time we hung out she asked me how many people I've slept with and I said 150. From then on she kept teasing me the whole night but I wouldn't budge and just kept cracking jokes about it. We fooled around a bit and I could have gotten laid that night (sex on the second day with a girl .. that's a first for me) but decided to hold off a bit longer. A few days later it happened at my place. And let me tell you, she was VERY eager
I decided not to pursue it as I just didn't feel the chemistry beyond physical attraction.
So .. what I learned was to turn something that could work against you into something that can work for you, in a funny way if possible.
1) be honest
2) lie in a DJ way
1) Being honest did NOT work for me. It doesn't matter if you've slept with 3 or 5 or 50 chicks. If a girl asks you and you tell her straight up, she forms an opinion about. I dated a 20 year old virgin early this year for 5 months (up until May). I was an AFC many times and we never did it. In my defense I did get sweet sweet head almost every day, which to me is almost as good and sometimes better. Point is, I specifically remember one time her telling me what a bad person I was for sleeping with all those girls and what a good person she was. Now some of the stuff she said was really disrespectful and eventually I walked out on her, which completely threw her off and made her crumble but by then it was too late - this was the first LTR I can proudly say I broke off. What I'm trying to say is that the truth is not only irrelevant, but I don't see how it could possibly work in your favor.
2) Not telling her, in a DJ way, WORKS. I "sort of" dated this girl a couple months ago for about 3 weeks (we went out a few times and got it on twice). The second time we hung out she asked me how many people I've slept with and I said 150. From then on she kept teasing me the whole night but I wouldn't budge and just kept cracking jokes about it. We fooled around a bit and I could have gotten laid that night (sex on the second day with a girl .. that's a first for me) but decided to hold off a bit longer. A few days later it happened at my place. And let me tell you, she was VERY eager
I decided not to pursue it as I just didn't feel the chemistry beyond physical attraction.So .. what I learned was to turn something that could work against you into something that can work for you, in a funny way if possible.