"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sexual History 2

tatlongxxx

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My gf told me her sexual histories. Men, its pretty disappointing but I can accept it. What keeps bothering me is her relation with her brother.

Here’s the story;
While my gf is sleeping he kiss her on her lips, and she kisses back torrid. What do u thinks what happened next. I don’t know if they always doing this? They are too close to each other like changing clothes in front of him. Its a sad thing..... coz i still love her.

Should I dump her also?:(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dockta

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How old is she? how old is the brother?

Bro, if i were you i would get the hell outta there....... and maybe send in an application form with both their names on it to JERRY SPRINGER....

It sounds like she is F***ing her brother. eeeeeekkkk. what is the world coming to?
 

tatlongxxx

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she is 25 and her brother is 24
 

AlwaysLearning

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That's fvcking gross. If she's doing this kind of sheit then she's gotta have other problems. She can't be normal. I mean who the fvck does that kinda shiet with their brother? Thinking about kissing my sis like that makes me wanna puke.

The chick is 25 too. Nah man I'm coo.

-AL
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by dockta
How old is she? how old is the brother?

Bro, if i were you i would get the hell outta there....... and maybe send in an application form with both their names on it to JERRY SPRINGER....

It sounds like she is F***ing her brother. eeeeeekkkk. what is the world coming to?
I second that.
 
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:eek:With her...BROTHER? :eek:

EEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWW! That's just NASTY! I don't think you should be dating this chick! She sounds like she has some serious problems.
 

Cesare Cardinali

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Too bad she's not kissing her twin sister.

This is hardly a "mature man" topic but what the hell, I'll throw in my two cents. You love her but want to dump her because of this? if they are not tonguing each other down then it hardly seems like something you should dump her for. It's still gross, don't get me wrong, but you need to investigate this further before booting her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So I'm the only one who'se a little bit turned on by that then?
 
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