Never did I think that as a man I would have to experience something like this.
I'm a 23 year old male, straight. A few months ago, I got this job. I've worked in gas stations, fast food, and retail since I was 14. This is a factory, i started at $13.75, and within the first 3 months I got bumped up to $14.30, and they said keep up the hard work and I'll have another raise by spring. Rent by me is $375 a month ($750 shared), so this isn't that bad at all. Plus I get overtime every week and its easy work. Not bad for someone whose made minimum wage all their life...
At my work there is a 44 year old male who is a gay top whose HIV positive. This all started one day when he walked up to me and told me that me and my friend look like we have big ****s and that he wants to suck both of us off. Okay...Kinda strange but whatever.
So its just gotten worse since than. He started telling me that he could turn me into a gay man within 6 beers. He tells me that he knows that im secretly gay at least once a week. To be honest, I've tried to think of myself as a gay man before...it doesn't work. I dont get hard thinking about being with dudes...I get completely grossed out! This guy goes into explicit detail about how hes gonna pull down my pants and suck on my balls and how he can do it better than woman. Every day he walks up to me and tickles me and calls me babe in a soft voice.
I sit alone in the break room. Youre supposed to sit in the break room if youre not smoking and I don't smoke. I dont like drama and lots of people in the break room are dramatic and start problems so I don't talk to anyone. I put my hood up and face toward the wall and either sleep or sit on my phone. He comes up to me and gropes my ass/**** when im walking by, calls me baby and asks why i'm so quiet, stares into my eyes the way a women does right before i **** her and says "You know I want to play with your hair so badly right now but theres too many people in here" in a soft voice that makes it sound like hes jacking off under the table. He says "I have an idea, lets get really high all weekend and buy a bunch of legos and build them in our underwear". He tells me that he wants to go to music festivals with me and my friends, have orgies with us and film it! He offers me food all the time, the other day he offered me chap stick when my lips were chapped. I said no thanks. He flipped out and started yelling at me that im an ******* and that im not gonna get HIV from sharing chapstick with him, treating me like im a dip****. He comes up to me and grabs the hair from my chest through my shirt and looks at me like hes about to rip my clothes off. He's this scrawny little ***** thats balding and disgusting.
And this would all be not that bad, except for the fact that i'm completely straight and this guy is HIV positive!!!!
Obviously the first step would be going to HR. But HR is completely ****ing useless. Its this clueless 25 year old bimbo whose the HR person at 3 different factories owned by the same parent company in the area. She is completely useless. I know of 2 other people who have been harassed by this guy in the past that took him to HR. When she brought him in to talk to him, he started flipping out and calling the company homophobic and threatening to get his lawyer involved, and the HR lady than says "oh thats just how he connects with people" back to the people being harassed.
Every time I see this guy I get closer and closer to shoving him into a wall and telling him that I'm gonna whoop his ass if he keeps touching me and talking to me like this, and I could easily beat the **** out of this guy, but I dont need his nasty HIV blood flying all over the place. I don't want to fight, I just want to be left alone. I'm sick of being: Groped, touched, tickled, and talked to disgustingly every single day. Every day I get felt up by him at least 2-3 times and he talks disgusting to me. And I dont reciprocate so he goes and sits by some nasty old redneck ladies who drink mr. boston and smoke virginia slims outside of work and talks about how i'm a loser and i look like i dont get laid.
What do I do?? Help me!
I'm a 23 year old male, straight. A few months ago, I got this job. I've worked in gas stations, fast food, and retail since I was 14. This is a factory, i started at $13.75, and within the first 3 months I got bumped up to $14.30, and they said keep up the hard work and I'll have another raise by spring. Rent by me is $375 a month ($750 shared), so this isn't that bad at all. Plus I get overtime every week and its easy work. Not bad for someone whose made minimum wage all their life...
At my work there is a 44 year old male who is a gay top whose HIV positive. This all started one day when he walked up to me and told me that me and my friend look like we have big ****s and that he wants to suck both of us off. Okay...Kinda strange but whatever.
So its just gotten worse since than. He started telling me that he could turn me into a gay man within 6 beers. He tells me that he knows that im secretly gay at least once a week. To be honest, I've tried to think of myself as a gay man before...it doesn't work. I dont get hard thinking about being with dudes...I get completely grossed out! This guy goes into explicit detail about how hes gonna pull down my pants and suck on my balls and how he can do it better than woman. Every day he walks up to me and tickles me and calls me babe in a soft voice.
I sit alone in the break room. Youre supposed to sit in the break room if youre not smoking and I don't smoke. I dont like drama and lots of people in the break room are dramatic and start problems so I don't talk to anyone. I put my hood up and face toward the wall and either sleep or sit on my phone. He comes up to me and gropes my ass/**** when im walking by, calls me baby and asks why i'm so quiet, stares into my eyes the way a women does right before i **** her and says "You know I want to play with your hair so badly right now but theres too many people in here" in a soft voice that makes it sound like hes jacking off under the table. He says "I have an idea, lets get really high all weekend and buy a bunch of legos and build them in our underwear". He tells me that he wants to go to music festivals with me and my friends, have orgies with us and film it! He offers me food all the time, the other day he offered me chap stick when my lips were chapped. I said no thanks. He flipped out and started yelling at me that im an ******* and that im not gonna get HIV from sharing chapstick with him, treating me like im a dip****. He comes up to me and grabs the hair from my chest through my shirt and looks at me like hes about to rip my clothes off. He's this scrawny little ***** thats balding and disgusting.
And this would all be not that bad, except for the fact that i'm completely straight and this guy is HIV positive!!!!
Obviously the first step would be going to HR. But HR is completely ****ing useless. Its this clueless 25 year old bimbo whose the HR person at 3 different factories owned by the same parent company in the area. She is completely useless. I know of 2 other people who have been harassed by this guy in the past that took him to HR. When she brought him in to talk to him, he started flipping out and calling the company homophobic and threatening to get his lawyer involved, and the HR lady than says "oh thats just how he connects with people" back to the people being harassed.
Every time I see this guy I get closer and closer to shoving him into a wall and telling him that I'm gonna whoop his ass if he keeps touching me and talking to me like this, and I could easily beat the **** out of this guy, but I dont need his nasty HIV blood flying all over the place. I don't want to fight, I just want to be left alone. I'm sick of being: Groped, touched, tickled, and talked to disgustingly every single day. Every day I get felt up by him at least 2-3 times and he talks disgusting to me. And I dont reciprocate so he goes and sits by some nasty old redneck ladies who drink mr. boston and smoke virginia slims outside of work and talks about how i'm a loser and i look like i dont get laid.
What do I do?? Help me!
