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Sexual conduct with a good female friend?

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Hi,

I know a very good female friend of mine who likes me and I've known her for 8 years. I do not want to have a relationship with her or become g/f and b\f.

However, my question is, is it rationally acceptable for me to ask her if she would like to have a sexual conduct with me? Or is that stepping onto a delicate borderline which could lead to a jeopardised friendship?. She doesn't have a b/f. What slightly worries me is, she may get the wrong idea of my principle which may end up in a dysfunctional co-operation.

Should I play safe and find someone else which will naturally occur, or go for it?. I'm 17 now and she's 16 (legally)

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Originally posted by Grandmaster Sexay
Hi,

However, my question is, is it rationally acceptable for me to ask her if she would like to have a sexual conduct with me?

No dude, it is NEVER acceptable to ASK them to, "have a sexual conduct" with you. You don't ask girls to screw with you, you seduce them into it.

As to what would happen to your freindship, if you ask her like that you are willingly murdering your freindship.

If she's cool at all, you can just pull some moves on her, provided you have any, and have some fun, then wether it becomes akward or not depends on what you do afterwords.
 

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Re: Re: Sexual conduct with a good female friend?

Originally posted by True Wolf
No dude, it is NEVER acceptable to ASK them to, "have a sexual conduct" with you. You don't ask girls to screw with you, you seduce them into it.

As to what would happen to your freindship, if you ask her like that you are willingly murdering your freindship.

If she's cool at all, you can just pull some moves on her, provided you have any, and have some fun, then wether it becomes akward or not depends on what you do afterwords.
Amen.
 
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Re: Re: Sexual conduct with a good female friend?

Originally posted by True Wolf
No dude, it is NEVER acceptable to ASK them to, "have a sexual conduct" with you. You don't ask girls to screw with you, you seduce them into it.

As to what would happen to your freindship, if you ask her like that you are willingly murdering your freindship.

If she's cool at all, you can just pull some moves on her, provided you have any, and have some fun, then wether it becomes akward or not depends on what you do afterwords.
Ah ok. Sounds reasonable thing to do. Well, I'll see how it goes. It just a natural thing that occurs without the pressure of doing so.

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No problem, it's what i do:D
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i agree dont even say somthing like that unless you got somthing pland to back it up or unless ur experimentin somthing new. I mean if ur doin it to get rep! then do it but unless u got something to back it up then dont say somting like that.
 

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Re: Re: Sexual conduct with a good female friend?

Originally posted by True Wolf
No dude, it is NEVER acceptable to ASK them to, "have a sexual conduct" with you. You don't ask girls to screw with you, you seduce them into it.

As to what would happen to your freindship, if you ask her like that you are willingly murdering your freindship.

If she's cool at all, you can just pull some moves on her, provided you have any, and have some fun, then wether it becomes akward or not depends on what you do afterwords.
I agree that he definitely shouldn't do that in his situation.

However, sometimes just straight up asking them can work. My 17-year-old friend has done it several times to success. Once he just straight up said "So are we gonna hook up?" to a 22 year old he was hanging out with and he ended up f*cking her.
 

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The fact you want to ask her to have "sexual conduct" with you means you should go out and try to figure better ways to phrase things and possibly hang around people who don't play video games all day...
for good sake SEXUAL CONDCUT? and DYSFUNCTIONAL CO-OPERATION?

MY GOD WHY DON'T YOU JUST ASK HER TO "INCREASE THE POPULATION OF COMMUNITY?"

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Originally posted by Void
The fact you want to ask her to have "sexual conduct" with you means you should go out and try to figure better ways to phrase things and possibly hang around people who don't play video games all day...
for good sake SEXUAL CONDCUT? and DYSFUNCTIONAL CO-OPERATION?

MY GOD WHY DON'T YOU JUST ASK HER TO "INCREASE THE POPULATION OF COMMUNITY?"

:crackup:
Haha, well I don't play video games at all. Just read. I have spoken like that and it tends to speak down on them. I guess I should phrase it simplicity if I wish to suceed :D

Anyhow, I'll take it easy....
 
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