"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sexPDX...anyone know him personally?

Paper

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Hello guys, I trying to get ahold of sexPDX but he has not been on this site in a while and I can't directly email him from this site. I was wondering if anyone knew him personally and could maybe give me his email address. Thank you very much.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Paradox

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PM him. If he has his settings on it should send him an e-mail saying that he has a PM.
 

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Yeah, PM him. I've talked to him through PM's a number of times.
 

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Paper said:
Hello guys, I trying to get ahold of sexPDX but he has not been on this site in a while and I can't directly email him from this site. I was wondering if anyone knew him personally and could maybe give me his email address. Thank you very much.

PM me with your email address and who you are ie. what you want in general, and I'll forward your email address and explanation to him and it will be up to him whether he wants to contact you.
 
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