"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sexless marriage article.....

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What was the point of the article? She complained about his lack of sex drive snd how shw wasn't having sex enough only to say in the end she didn't want to have sex with him and wasn't attracted to him anyways.

She probably spent the first 10 years of their marriage rebuffing his attempts and when he stops trying looks like that is his fault too.

What her bottom line is (if you read between the lines of her complaints) she is telling the world with this article she wants an affair to boost her ego and to make her feel sexy again.
 

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She says she is not attracted to her husband who is stable, a good father and husband. She wants a wild and crazy guy. I see a divorce in their future.
 

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What was the point of the article? She complained about his lack of sex drive snd how shw wasn't having sex enough only to say in the end she didn't want to have sex with him and wasn't attracted to him anyways.

She probably spent the first 10 years of their marriage rebuffing his attempts and when he stops trying looks like that is his fault too.

What her bottom line is (if you read between the lines of her complaints) she is telling the world with this article she wants an affair to boost her ego and to make her feel sexy again.
She probably messed up his sex drive with all the rejections, and also it didn't help to get fat on top of it and to not be desired.
 

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She says she is not attracted to her husband who is stable, a good father and husband. She wants a wild and crazy guy. I see a divorce in their future.
100% correct. Lets not forget the part where she blames every thing on him and then tries to take half his savings away
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lol.... He's cheating.... trust me....
 
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