"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sexist Vintage Ads

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http://www.lemondrop.com/gallery/sexist-vintage-ads-a-history-lesson/1076244/

Make sure you read the snide remarks at the bottom of the pics.

Seriously....this is what women consider "sexist", yet they have no problem shaming men for everything under the sun.

How is this any different from today's ads? I suppose it isn't politically correct to actually STATE the truth....but if you imply it, that's cool....

Funny stuff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Oh man... the douche ad is awesome. The guy is running out of the house because his wife's vagina is stank.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Oh man... the douche ad is awesome. The guy is running out of the house because his wife's vagina is stank.
Hahahahaha.....but is it "sexist"?
 

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STR8UP said:
Hahahahaha.....but is it "sexist"?

Um, no. They are only giving them the ads that women of that time wanted in terms of how they thought of things then.

They are basically the same items as today but you're supposed to pretend they're not mostly used to attract men.

So actually the old ads are more honest. "if your skin is reptilian your husband just might leave you." *gasp* honesty!
 

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If you go through the ads you see that society today has done a complete 180. Back then the expectation was on the woman to look good (not fat) and young (like a school girl), and they even advertised "success schools" for women to get in shape so their husband wouldn't leave them. Now, all the expectations are on the man to be in shape and look younger. If you think school girls look good, you're a creepy pedophile and now men go to bootcamps in hopes to just get a lay or maybe a GF. women are men and men are women nowadays.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You know what is the modern term for a woman who is "sexist?" A FEMINIST.

I hate the term "sexist" its ambiguous and politically correct driven word used by feminists (who are themsleves "sexists) to disagree with men every time they point out biological/physical or behavioural differences between the genders that have some evolutionary psychological merits to them but are brushed aside because they do not promote so called "equality".

When in actuality modern feminists do not promote equality but discriminate against men and promote women to become like men and switch the roles of the two genders.
 

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"Sexist" (and really anything with an "ist" tacked onto the end of a word) is the term any advertiser is hoping you'll associate as justification to buy a competing brand selling the exact same product the same advertiser is also representing.

Yes, I work in advertising,..
 

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Yes, the douche ad is sexist! A man ought to be able to tell his wife she stinks, I say!
 

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STR8UP said:
Hahahahaha.....but is it "sexist"?
Oh absolutely! But it's brought on by a conflict of biology and marketing. Men can use the same bar of soap to wash their junk, so hygeine companies don't need to sell them a separate product.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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they arent sexist, because at the time , the women were reading the ads and then buying the products. the products were being advertised in ways that gave enough information for a gal to want to buy a product.
i love vintage ads, and if i had some extra room in my house, i would print them out and frame them.
 

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I didn't even think of it that way PK.

It's amazing how attitudes change over a couple of decades.

I didn't live during that time, but I can imagine that things were "better" back then between men and women. Lower divorce rates, etc. I know my grandparents seemed pretty happy. I think it was the boomer generation that really fukked things up for everyone. Maybe it was just a "backlash" of sorts, but I think it's gone on for too long. Women created this pussified society, men allowed it to happen, and now nobody is happy.

Gen X is bearing the brunt of it, hopefully the next couple of generations will see some positive change.
 

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i believe it was vietnam going on too long and so many dying for nothing, and woodstock's drugs, and all the men being gone so women had to take on all the jobs, and then it esculated from there.
 
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