Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That not only happens with a woman who's on her period, but it happens with women who are tight. Scared the 5hit out of me when it first happened.Yea...its gross when you see blood on your schlong mixed with ***** juice.
I was gonna post my experiences with it, but the boatdock anaolgy made me puke........ no but seriously, I have done it with a few different gfs. It's a fact that they are super horny right before or during their rag, so like gangsta said, most are willing if you are. I got lucky however, because the times I did it, the girls barely bled at all, and there was no funky scent, which is the real turn off. I think the guys who have never done it epect this huge mess, but it's usually not the case. It's not like she's gushing 24 hours a day. The only cool thing is that you can tell they are much hornier, and it's also a bit more lubed. And the decreased chance of pregnancy is cool. Do it in the shower, lights off if you just wanna stick it in a hole and can't wait.speed dawg said:I will not partake in this particular activity ever again in my life.
One girl I was with didn't know she had started (or didn't claim to at least). I had went down on her and fvcked her, then, when the lights came on.....
Weird enough, I didn't have any blood on my face. Strange.
I also fvcked this wh0re on the rag one night, my first time to do it, actually. Ever smelled a boatdock right after all the fishermen have come in and skint all the fish?
My second time was the one I mentioned above. I'm now scarred on the idea.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yea me too. Its the worst when youre hitting it doggy and you start to so the nasty concoction i previously mentioned...instant boner killer...almost.Desdinova said:That not only happens with a woman who's on her period, but it happens with women who are tight. Scared the 5hit out of me when it first happened.
Hahaha, it's weird how lil things like this make it seem so disgusting, I guess in reality it is.STR8UP said:The "consistency" of a woman's lubrication makes a big difference in how good the sex feels. A slimy, smelly period mess feels like cheap artificial lube. I don't care for it at all.
The trick is finding a woman who loves to give head. Although most women suck at it giving a BJ, it's better than slopping around in a bloody mess.....
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.