"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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camel7000

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hey guys, whats up...the other night i dropped my girl off and we had some time to chill outisde till she had to go...she said the way i was acting was extremely sexy
(it was kinda stuff like "well i dont care" in this certain voice, and she said me pulling her close to me too)
anyways, any other tips, or advice on how to act sexier around her? she seemed to love it and its obviously a turn on.
thanks alot guys
trev
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rez

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If you continue to focus on only that which appeals as sexy to her, rather than focusing on what is sexy behavior to you, then you'll eventually find yourself becoming her pet instead of her lover.

Yes, it's important to acknowledge what is appealing or attractive to the opposite sex. But if that's all you study then you'll stop being your true self and that is a huge turn-off.

I'm not saying "just be yourself." **** that. All I'm saying is be the man you've always wanted to be and don't depend on her approval to act a certain way.

All the best.
 

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It's annoying as all hell when you post a thread three fvcking times. And it makes people not want to help you.
 

camel7000

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yes i know man,..my internet was being gay..i pressed submit, but the page just kept loading so i figured it never posted it :/ my bad
 

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Sounds like to me all you need to do is just be man and stop thinking about what she wants to much. The I dont care attitude just says that you are secure and know what you want. The girl doesn't want a wussie and there is a lot of different ways to portray that. Be a leader, be in charge etc etc..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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