"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sexaul attraction vs value based

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I know women have types. Can value beat what a women is physically attracted to?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't think so. She'll cheat. But she'll probably do that anyway.

Even if you are what she is physically attracted to and you come together like two freight trains, she still wants values (or a comman lack thereof).
 
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Mike32ct said:
From a gettng laid perspective ONLY, in a competition between a hot guy, a cool smooth socially connected guy, and a rich guy....

My money is on the hot guy.
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I'll throw some bones on the cool smooth socially connected guy. As long as he doesn't look like a hobbit.
 
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SoSuave666 said:
I'll throw some bones on the cool smooth socially connected guy. As long as he doesn't look like a hobbit.
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If he doesn't bone, you don't get your bones back lol. Just kidding.

It would be a close race. I'm also assuming the hot guy has some social skills, but not nearly as strong as the cool smooth Mr. Social because Mr. Hunk is spoiled and hasn't needed them much.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have a hard time placing much emphasis on "value" when it comes to the types of men that women choose. I guess it's because I've seen too many women that seemed to "have their sh!t together" date a guy that had absolutely NOTHING going for him. I'm talking about a bum, not some guy that was down on his luck and working hard to change it. before you know it the girl that had everything going for her is now a loser and gave it all up to be with a guy most people wouldn't piss on if he was on fire. I'm not saying this always happens BUT it does happen more often then you would think. I've seen it HUNDREDS of times. for instance, the girl could be a banker and date a guy that got fired from being a cook at the Waffle House. before you know it she quits her $80,000 a year banker job to work at Dollar General and be the bread winner for both.
 
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We all know that women want a muscular millionaire with a mansion, maid, mercedes, and marriage material who has lots of time to spend with her instead of working.

But this guy hardly exists. Even so, if a hot guy and rich guy go for the same girl, that battle will get very interesting. She still has to choose. She'd choose them both! Why? They are both something that women want!
 
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At the end of the day, if you can show the woman a good time in the sack, and your a pervy mofo who knows how to move like jagger....you'll win.......its getting them to that point that causes us all problems ;)
 
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nismo-4 said:
We all know that women want a muscular millionaire with a mansion, maid, mercedes, and marriage material who has lots of time to spend with her instead of working.

But this guy hardly exists. Even so, if a hot guy and rich guy go for the same girl, that battle will get very interesting. She still has to choose. She'd choose them both!
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Exactly - she chooses one muscular guy, one millionaire, one guy with a mansion, one guy with a maid, one guy with a mercedes, and one guy who is marriage material. She then sleeps with all 7 but makes all of them feel inadequate by reminding them about the other 6.
 
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Mike32ct said:
If he doesn't bone, you don't get your bones back lol. Just kidding.

It would be a close race. I'm also assuming the hot guy has some social skills, but not nearly as strong as the cool smooth Mr. Social because Mr. Hunk is spoiled and hasn't needed them much.
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i wouldnt say thats true. I know a dude who is a abercrombie model and his skills are weak as ****. I would rate my physical looks at a 7.5-8.5 range and I can run circles around him. I also come from a rich family so i am not sure where I fit on that list. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bigneil said:
Exactly - she chooses one muscular guy, one millionaire, one guy with a mansion, one guy with a maid, one guy with a mercedes, and one guy who is marriage material. She then sleeps with all 7 but makes all of them feel inadequate by reminding them about the other 6.
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Women don't care about a guy's feelings at all. Not only that, a woman's options are damn infinite.

Bossman, being from a rich family, you shouldn't have trouble with women, as long as you watch out for gold diggers. Hopefully you've been allowed to drive the family Maserati!

Women truly love a man when he either has the looks or the money. More so when it's both.
 
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