"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sex !?

Hockey Playa

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Ok my girlfriend is 15 im 17, we've been going out for 2 weeks, but were already really open about the sex topic. (cool)..The problem is shes leaving in 2 months for a 4 month trip.. Were both virgins, the topic alwayz comes up and we alwayz joke about it, but shes leaving in 2 months and i said i think we should do it before she leaves. She says she doesnt want to be pressured in and wants it to be ''special'', but i can tell she wants to as much as me. Im really confused about how to go about accomplishing it. Should i insist we do it before she leaves? say its up to her? just suddenly do it out of the blue?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Set the right mood and go for it. When she shows LMR, apply the proper techniques to overcome them. If she still resists, then stop it. She's not ready.

Don't try to pressure her, just try to let it fall naturally...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This belongs in the high-school forum.

-Bill
 
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