I need to figure out a comfortable place to have sex. I have been with my girlfriend for about 4 months and we have only had sex a few times! Both me and my girlfriend live with parents who don't want us to have sex. Any ideas of where we could get something going especially on Valentine's Day?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Sex
- Thread starter intensity
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Slippery Sam
Don Juan
its time for some backseat lovin 
BananaSmile
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 8, 2009
- Messages
- 129
- Reaction score
- 1
how expencive are motels?
or use a friends house?
or use a friends house?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
eaglez1177
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 24, 2008
- Messages
- 1,320
- Reaction score
- 21
Look man, you gotta talk to your parents. Tell them that you have a girlfriend, and you want some fvcking privacy. It is NONE of their business nor their job to be saying what they do/dont want you to do. You gotta lay down some ground rules and tell them that your fvckin 16 years old and should be able to have some privacy with your gf....God I hate parents that are like this...i dont know why they feel compelled to butt in on such private things. Find a door with a lock on it in your house and go in there.intensity said:
colombiandude
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 12, 2009
- Messages
- 62
- Reaction score
- 0
eaglez....thats not gonna work. lmao. it kinda is their business or job to tell' you what to do. and you dont know this dudes parents lmao. they might be mad uptight or worse. but i dont think 16 is a sufficient age for that. try it if you wanna get beat. i dk depends on your parents.
What kind of bs is this? who the hell do you think you are? is this your house? do you pay the bills? did you work your butt off to buy it? did you raise yourself?eaglez1177 said:
Of course parents don't want their f**kng kids f**ng in their home. Hell I wouldn't want nobody but me doing that in my home. If you want to f**ck go somewhere else.
You have no respect.
eaglez1177
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 24, 2008
- Messages
- 1,320
- Reaction score
- 21
Woahh chill son...all im saying is that at one point or another, you're gonna have to "grow up" and move on from the intense shelting that your parents seem to be giving you. Yea sure they pay the bills and all that stuff, but thats their JOB as a parent. Thats a responsibility they take on in exchange for having a kid.
You honestly want to have a gf and at the same time not be able to fvck her cuz your parents have you chained to a leash? Come on man you gotta be open with them and talk about it.
And just to clarify, i dont mean talking about it as in just straight up saying "give me some privacy so I can have sex with her". Obvioulsy you wouldnt say that if your parents are against sex. Just go to them and say something along the lines of this "I understand how you guys dont want us having sex, AND WERE NOT, but I would really appreciate it if you just gave us a little more privacy because sometimes I just feel uncomfortable with you checking up on us/making us unlock the door/(whatever your parents do to make sure you dont have sex).
EDIT: ANd yes, it is a parents job to GIVE THEIR CHILDREN DIRECTION and tell them what to do with certain things, but not to totally interfere with something so private like this. Thats your OWN personal privacy, and no matter if your living in your own house or your parents, every person deserves their own personal privacy.
You honestly want to have a gf and at the same time not be able to fvck her cuz your parents have you chained to a leash? Come on man you gotta be open with them and talk about it.
And just to clarify, i dont mean talking about it as in just straight up saying "give me some privacy so I can have sex with her". Obvioulsy you wouldnt say that if your parents are against sex. Just go to them and say something along the lines of this "I understand how you guys dont want us having sex, AND WERE NOT, but I would really appreciate it if you just gave us a little more privacy because sometimes I just feel uncomfortable with you checking up on us/making us unlock the door/(whatever your parents do to make sure you dont have sex).
EDIT: ANd yes, it is a parents job to GIVE THEIR CHILDREN DIRECTION and tell them what to do with certain things, but not to totally interfere with something so private like this. Thats your OWN personal privacy, and no matter if your living in your own house or your parents, every person deserves their own personal privacy.
Scars
Master Don Juan
I'm 20 and still live with my parents, unfortunately. You would think I'm old enough to learn the responsibilities and consequences of sex, but the fact of the matter is, as longer as I'm under their roof it's their rules. I understand this.
It just gives you more of an incentive to move out. Don't be disrespectful, your parents have done a lot for you.
It just gives you more of an incentive to move out. Don't be disrespectful, your parents have done a lot for you.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
jemswillam
New Member
- Joined
- Feb 5, 2010
- Messages
- 3
- Reaction score
- 0
hello intensity
Sorry friend, i am doing this reply after 2-3 days of valentines. but i think each and every day is valentine day for lover, and about sex, go any beach site where you can have sex. See one thing for a pleasant sex, pleasant mind is required.some other paces for sex is
:-
1.The Beach
2.A Pool
3.A Moving Car
4.Nightclubs
5.A Cab
6.A Movie Theater
7.The Woods
8.On a Plane
9.On a Boat
Sorry friend, i am doing this reply after 2-3 days of valentines. but i think each and every day is valentine day for lover, and about sex, go any beach site where you can have sex. See one thing for a pleasant sex, pleasant mind is required.some other paces for sex is
:-
1.The Beach
2.A Pool
3.A Moving Car
4.Nightclubs
5.A Cab
6.A Movie Theater
7.The Woods
8.On a Plane
9.On a Boat
Borrow a parent's car and park it somewhere inconspicuous.
Go to a public park and find a spot where no one can see.
Go in an office building and do it in a bathroom stall on a quiet level.
Some stairwell somewhere.
A stranger's backyard during the day when they aren't home
The thrill of getting caught is really a turn on, but it can be annoying if the girl is all paranoid.
Go to a public park and find a spot where no one can see.
Go in an office building and do it in a bathroom stall on a quiet level.
Some stairwell somewhere.
A stranger's backyard during the day when they aren't home
The thrill of getting caught is really a turn on, but it can be annoying if the girl is all paranoid.
eaglez1177
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 24, 2008
- Messages
- 1,320
- Reaction score
- 21
Lol this is outrageous. A stairwell?! A stranger's backyard!? A movie theater!? This isnt a freakin porno where you can just fvck wherever the heck you want. I will guarantee this chick your trying to have sex with will NEVER agree to any of these suggestions you guys listed. The ONLY place that you MIGHT be able to get her to fvck in would be in a parked car. Even then, its still very tough to get to that point because many chicks find that trashy and uncomfortable. I say grow a pair and talk to your parents.
I've ****ed a girl in a not-well-secluded clothing store dressing room, with just a little curtain in the doorway, not a door.
My ex told me that some of the hottest sex she'd ever had was getting ****ed against the wall of a church (I think she said it was the only time she'd done anal, too.)
I've done it in an elementary school soccer field at nighttime, and in a couple secluded spots around my high school.
Movie theaters and bathrooms (especially bar and club bathrooms) are legendary sex spots (I don't remember if I've ever had full sex in a theater, but I'm sure you could find an empty one and sit in the back row.) Neither of these sounds very appealing, though, on account of the stickiness you might encounter everywhere.
Sex in public places is a huge turn-on for many people, including girls.
This IS a freakin porno and you CAN just **** wherever the heck you want. If the cops catch you, it's most likely that they'd just tell you to leave, but it's possible they'd call your parents and even less likely that they'd ticket you. Anyone but the cops catches you? Laugh it off, and leave if they won't.
My ex told me that some of the hottest sex she'd ever had was getting ****ed against the wall of a church (I think she said it was the only time she'd done anal, too.)
I've done it in an elementary school soccer field at nighttime, and in a couple secluded spots around my high school.
Movie theaters and bathrooms (especially bar and club bathrooms) are legendary sex spots (I don't remember if I've ever had full sex in a theater, but I'm sure you could find an empty one and sit in the back row.) Neither of these sounds very appealing, though, on account of the stickiness you might encounter everywhere.
Sex in public places is a huge turn-on for many people, including girls.
This IS a freakin porno and you CAN just **** wherever the heck you want. If the cops catch you, it's most likely that they'd just tell you to leave, but it's possible they'd call your parents and even less likely that they'd ticket you. Anyone but the cops catches you? Laugh it off, and leave if they won't.
eaglez1177
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 24, 2008
- Messages
- 1,320
- Reaction score
- 21
Im speakin from my own experience; i've had sex with my f buddy and have tried to fvck her numerous in a place other than her house or mine. Every time she gave me a bunch of reasons why she didnt feel comfortable with that. Then, on another occasion, I almost fvcked this slvtty girl on a playground, where NO ONE was around, and she still didnt want to do it there, and for almost the same reasons my f buddy mentioned.
I guess you could say it takes a certain type of kinky girl to have sex in public places like you mentioned Isko.
I guess you could say it takes a certain type of kinky girl to have sex in public places like you mentioned Isko.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.