sex

[Grover_mister]

so i might loose my virginty this week and i got 5 questions i deeply need answered


1. How hard is it to put on a rubber

2. does it hurt ur first time

3. how long does it last on average

4. how do i know what goes wehre and right and stuff

5. any tips

 

[PhatE1vis]

1. How hard is it to put on a rubber
It can be tricky, especially the first time. Don't go in cold without and practice. Try putting one on by yourself first so you know how it works.

2. does it hurt ur first time
It won't hurt you. May hurt her a little if it's her first time. So go slow. She's not a trampoline.

3. how long does it last on average
No way to say. Everyone is different. Try not to rush past all the kissing and other stuff just to get to your goal. Girls hate that.

4. how do i know what goes wehre and right and stuff
Have you done other stuff with women? Gently use your fingers on her first to figure out what goes where. She'll probably help guide you in too.

5. any tips
Don't over think it.

 

[theunflushables]

And this is why they need to start teaching sex education in school.

1. How hard is it to put on a rubber: Not very. Go buy a pack of condoms read the instructions and practice putting a couple on if you need to. Just don't look like a jackass in front of her

2. does it hurt ur first time: Yes, because your vagina is so tight because you've never had sex before. Of course it doesnt hurt. If this girl is tight you may feel it hard to get in. But if you're in true physical pain something's wrong.

3. how long does it last on average: 2 minutes :crackup: Seriously its different for every guy. I've found that getting a BJ beforehand tends to make you last longer.

4. how do i know what goes wehre and right and stuff: Penis goes in the Vagina ask her to help you guide it in if you don't think you can manage that

5. any tips: maybe go to B&N and pick up some sex education books, it looks like our school systems are failing.

 

[Grover_mister]

k im really like nervous and scared at the same time


i mean it is my first time and yeah i just dont wanna **** up

 

[PrinceBeavis]

This is supposed to be fun.

 

[Grover_mister]

i no..

its like im scared and nervous half to death but when it actually starts there shouldnt be a problem. and after the first time it shouldnt be as hard and stuff

 

[the_law]

It is fun! Do you know if she's a virgin?

 

[Grover_mister]

um yess

lets say she has had sex before...prolyl more than once

plus on her myspace her friends were asking if its true she is pregnat from her old boy friend thats 21.

now **** it would be embarrasing (even though we got dna work) if she wanted to have sex with me to try and make it look as though i got her pregnat....

but idont think that is so

 

[the_law]

Has she said she's had sex before? She might have only said that so as to seem that little bit more mature to you....we all know how women like mind games.
If it comes down to it and at the last minute she confesses she is, then do the following...

if she is then you need to think about her ALOT. She's going to be feeling as awkward as you are feeling, if not more. You'll need to take your time, definately don't rush it as she'll think your only in it for the score, and you don't want her to remember her first time as seeming trivial or anything to you.

If she's not, then it makes life easier for you. Buy a few packs of condoms, try em on. Maybe try to get a extra safe type, they are thicker so you don't get the same sensation, which means you (might) last for longer (which is obviously a good thing)

It wont hurt you once you've a condom on (edit - it shouldn't hurt regardless, but if she's really tight it might)

Use your fingers for a while before starting into the sex, you'll quickly discover where it needs to go. Look up a few books on sex, but take alot of them with a pince of salt. Listen to her breathing, you can tell how much she's enjoying it that way, listen to how it changes when you do different things, you'll be able to discover what she likes and doesnt like with some practice. just take your time.....

 

[Grover_mister]

well i got till thursday to prepare lol

 

[Bible_Belt]

Make sure the condom rolls the right way. It's easy to start with it inside-out. Also squeeze the tip as you put it on to push out air. I don't like the "extra strength" condoms, fwiw, I can't feel anything.

Get a tiny bottle of lube, and that will make things much easier. And, this sounds gross but it works, if you don't have lube, discreetly and quietly spit on your fingers and use that as lube for the condom. Or if you eat her out first, just drool on her pvssy to make sure it's wet.

 

[Interceptor]

Grover.


One thing you ABSOLUTELY MUST DO, in order for you and especially HER to really enjoy the experience is.....

FOREPLAY.

Make sure you spend plenty of time kissing, touching, stroking, and rubbing her BEFORE you just 'put it in".
Use that time wisely for you and her to feel at ease and comfortable. Relax yourself, and her and get into the moment.
Use that time to slow things down, and be patient, tender, and enjoy her body.
If you do things right, you might just be her number one. SHe may even start to buy you things, and chase you down.

Slow down you breathing, and look deep into her eyes.
She will notice how you get off on seeing her naked. This may actually be a good thing, since you come across as a caring and tender lover to her, trather than a Bang and Slam Man. Know what I mean?
Take your time, and learn to realx and enjoy the moment.
You may be seeing more of her in the future if you do things right.

Oh, and make sure you MAKE HER ORGASM too, OK? It ain't all about you , kid.

Good luck.

 

[ManOfMystery]

so i might loose my virginty this week and i got 5 questions i deeply need answered


1. How hard is it to put on a rubber

2. does it hurt ur first time

3. how long does it last on average

4. how do i know what goes wehre and right and stuff

5. any tips

Hey bro, congrats! To be honest, I just lost my virginity 2 days ago. Keeping in mind that I have had the chance many times to "do it", yet I like to be the chooser and select which girl I want to bang. Lucky for me, this girl was an 8.5/9 with an awesome personality.

1) not hard at all, just make sure you cover everything.
2) didn't hurt for me at all, may hurt the girl if she is a virgin.
3) i lasted about 10-15 minutes of intercourse, but we had over 2 hours of foreplay/fun/presex...we were drinking before as well
4.) i didn't know either, girls have a couple diff holes to put it in. i just told her to put it where she wanted it! and she did.

DO not be hesitant!

In my experience, she was saying how "naughty we were", "is this going to change our relationship", etc.

Just be confident. I was, and I was a virgin! A confident virgin...who wouldda thought?

Most of all, have fun and be safe!

 

[B4IFURU18?]

The whole sexual experience should last about 30 minutes. 1/3 - 1/4th of that being actual intercourse. Prolong your foreplay (kissing, oral sex, etc), and you'll be golden. Don't worry about ****ing her for 20 minutes, if you can get 7-10, you'll please her just fine.

 

[Spade_1]

1. Roll, put on tip, unroll

2. Not for guys

3. As long as you want. Go with the flow, stay calm.

4. Basic anatomy the other guys already said it.

5. TELL HER YOU'RE A VIRGIN!!!!!!!

 

[Don Juanito]

-Get a pack and play around so you don't look stupid when the time comes.

-Get the ones with spermicide in them, and pretty much all of them are lubricated

-If I was u, I would get Durex. Never had one break. They come in these "variety packs" too... yah..

-Have a back up plan in case something does go wrong for some reason. Look up where your closest Planned Parenthood is, #, hours, etc.. day after pills are.. lifesavers..

- when you do "come" and if you pull out, change condoms, don't reuse it because the semen might squirt out some,and might just get somewhere you really dont want it to go (inside her..).

-Go down on her first, make her orgasm and she might just forgive you for any f-ups you might do later...

g' luck!

:cheer:

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