"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jedimindtricks

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so my girlfriend and i just had sex for our first time yesterday :rock: but anyways, it went on for at least half an hour and i didn't even ***, we didn't use a condom because she's on BCP so i don't know...is there something wrong with me? :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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penkitten

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yes, you would like to join the std club...
use a freggin condom dude, birth control is not your only issue when you are having sex.
 

TheVirtualMind

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jedimindtricks said:
we were both virgins prior to yesterday so i don't think any STDs could be present
You can still get STD's even without having sex.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Vincent

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Quit stealing my signature idea's you bastard.
 

girl_in_a_boy_forum

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You should at the very least get both of you tested/see a gyno. You don't know until you find out, and you certainly don't want to regret this.

The first time is never perfect. Some c*m in 30 seconds, some don't c*m at all, etc. It'll be awkward for awhile, but with practice you two will start to synchronize and figure things out. Don't worry so much. If it's been several times and you still haven't c*m, maybe go to the doctor and he can answer your questions.
 
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