"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nosmirk

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she brings up sex first

then you pull some C&F stuff, but then she replies with the sex isnt to be with you or something along that line ( doesnt seem jokingly).

does this mean friendzone?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ryannath

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If the thought of you and her having sex didn't pop in her head, she wouldn't have said that. It doesn't mean friend zone, it means she is seeing if you are the man for the job.
 

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Of course she's not gonna reply "oh yea baby it's on you know it". Same thing happened to me with on of my plates on our first date. I don't remember what the exact comment was from me, but she replied "you won't be finding out tonight". I said "ok". Then guess what happened?
 

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nosmirk said:
she brings up sex first

then you pull some C&F stuff, but then she replies with the sex isnt to be with you or something along that line ( doesnt seem jokingly).
You should have replied "your vibrator can't be that good"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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