"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sex without wanting it?

illmatic1005

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quick question

what do you do when a girl says that she hates guys who ONLY want some azz but also hates guys who dont show their sexuality?

do u just kino and eye contact her like crazy?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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amoka

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illmatic1005 said:
quick question

what do you do when a girl says that she hates guys who ONLY want some azz but also hates guys who dont show their sexuality?

do u just kino and eye contact her like crazy?
what is the situation? Were you on a date with her?
 

illmatic1005

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no..she was just telling me how she wants a LTR with me that lasts longer than 2 weeks
 

amoka

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She is probably some insecure chick who is trying to make you have an exclusive relationship with her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

DJDamage

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amoka said:
She is probably some insecure chick who is trying to make you have an exclusive relationship with her.
I second that. I also think that its a sh1t test to see whether you become what she wants you to be.

Stay the course and do whatever you want to do.
 
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