Sex without consequences..questions

[ghostrider943]

Well Im just in high school and I want to know how to have sex without getting a disease (nothing on my package, HIV, etc).

So what should I do to sexually satisfy a woman without getting a disease? Im thinking about fingering, giving her oral, dirty talk, spanking. Any more ideas?

Most importantly, would I still be satisfying her if I dont whip it out? Would she understand?

 

[DJDamage]

So what should I do to sexually satisfy a woman without getting a disease? Im thinking about fingering, giving her oral, dirty talk, spanking. Any more ideas?

The reality is not there is no failed safe method of protection against STD's but abstinence.

Oral sex can give you a disease:

Chlamydia, human papillomavirus (HPV), gonorrhea, herpes, hepatitis (multiple strains), and other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)—including HIV—can be transmitted through oral sex.[10] While the exact risk of transmitting HIV through oral sex is unknown, it is very low.[11] Any kind of direct contact with body fluids of a person infected with HIV (the virus that causes AIDS) poses a risk of infection. The risk from most of these types of infection, however, is generally considered far less than that associated with vaginal or anal sex.

If the receiving partner has wounds or open sores on their genitals, or if the giving partner has wounds or open sores on or in their mouth, or bleeding gums, this poses an increased risk of STD transmission. Brushing the teeth, flossing, undergoing dental work, or eating crunchy foods such as chips relatively soon before or after giving oral sex can also increase the risk of transmission, because all of these activities can cause small scratches in the lining of the mouth. These wounds, even when they are microscopic, increase the chances of contracting STDs that can be transmitted orally under these conditions. Such contact can also lead to more mundane infections from common bacteria and viruses found in, around, and secreted from the genital regions.

Also not to mention that if your finger has broken skin or wound under the nail, that can cause an infection as well although those are small chances as well.

Sex is like driving a car. If you are smart and responsible it can be pretty safe but its never a 100% safe.

 

[SmoothTalker]

Don't get me wrong, I love giving women pleasure for its own sake, but are you really interested in doing this and getting nothing in return?

To stay safe use a condom and be picky with your girls. Ideally if you're in an LTR, get her and yourself tested for STDs before doing anything to have no worries.

But yeah, its never 100% safe unless you're both sterile virgins before getting together and neither ever cheats. This does happen but is not too common nowadays.

Just relax and have fun, DJDamage's analogy is a good one.