"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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seabreeze

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Gio, please don't tell me that you think all divorce is wanted by both partners? Please don't. There is always someone in the divorce who thinks that they did all they could do and they want to stay together but the other partner wants out. Divorce being totally mutual is rare, my friend. Seldom do both partners make the choice to divorce. And let's not forget about the guy whose wife decides to cheat on him and leave him for the bigger better deal. How does he have any responsibility in his marriage breaking up that way?

My point, getting married is taking a chance. No big difference. Taking a chance is taking a chance.
SB;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by seabreeze Gio, please don't tell me that you think all divorce is wanted by both partners? Please don't. There is always someone in the divorce who thinks that they did all they could do and they want to stay together but the other partner wants out. Divorce being totally mutual is rare, my friend. Seldom do both partners make the choice to divorce. And let's not forget about the guy whose wife decides to cheat on him and leave him for the bigger better deal. How does he have any responsibility in his marriage breaking up that way?

My point, getting married is taking a chance. No big difference. Taking a chance is taking a chance.
In cases of divorce, AT LEAST one of the two people have control over whether the divorce happens. Not so with a biological process such as birth control.
 

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Well according to your argument, the man has all of the control over conception! He's either gonna pull out or wear a condom everytime, regardless if she's on birth control. I'd say you put the control in the man's court then.

Hey, I'm gonna step out for the evening, but I want you to know that I appreciate our little discussion, Gio. Have a great evening and tell your sweetie Pen i said hello.
Cheers,
SB;)
 

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lol it astonishes me that all you rednecks think that getting pregnant = having a kid

havn't you guys heard about abortion or the morning after pill?

so you got pregnant..? bo whoopidi ****ing doo, just go to an abortion clinic and voila no pregnancy. takes like 5 mins.
 

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so you got pregnant..? bo whoopidi ****ing doo, just go to an abortion clinic and voila no pregnancy. takes like 5 mins.
Yes, it is really THAT simple. :rolleyes: Come on, have you ever even thought about what happens when a girl wants to have the baby?!

Here is my take on going bareback. I've done it before, the girl initiated it, i didnt resist, i loved it. Never want to do it again.

All of you saying "im in LTR and so it is ok". I think you are VERY naive. Yes, you might not catch STD's... but pregnancys do happen on birth control. Hell, i worked with a girl who got pregnant on a SHOT. They had sex 6 times in 5 months, and she did everything perfectly... Stop being deluded, yes having sex without a condom is great, but for god's sake at least pull out!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The fact is: WOMAN WILL ALWAYS THINK THAT IT'S LESS OF A BIG DEAL TO GET PREGNET (because that's what their biology tells them) then men. For a man, who just got his woman pregnet, it is the end of the road. All his dreams and hopes are done. While a big part of womans dreams and hopes are childern.....
 

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Originally posted by spider_007
The fact is: WOMAN WILL ALWAYS THINK THAT IT'S LESS OF A BIG DEAL TO GET PREGNET (because that's what their biology tells them) then men. For a man, who just got his woman pregnet, it is the end of the road. All his dreams and hopes are done. While a big part of womans dreams and hopes are childern.....
Seriously.

And I can only imagine the murderous rage I'd be in if a girl intentionally skipped taking her pills and got pregnant.
 

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Happens all the time, whistler. I wholeheartedly believe that 95% of "accidental" pregnancies are intentional (on the woman's part). And BC pills are the best way for a woman to do this.

So, pick a girl you can trust who takes BC pills responsibly or use condoms and then you can enjoy sex without constantly worrying about whether she will get pregnant. And if she still does, then it was a miracle and definitely meant to be.

Just my opinion.
SB;)
 

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Originally posted by seabreeze
Happens all the time, whistler. I wholeheartedly believe that 95% of "accidental" pregnancies are intentional (on the woman's part). And BC pills are the best way for a woman to do this.

So, pick a girl you can trust who takes BC pills responsibly or use condoms and then you can enjoy sex without constantly worrying about whether she will get pregnant. And if she still does, then it was a miracle and definitely meant to be.

Just my opinion.
SB;)
You may well be right. I mean, I can definitely imagine that happening more often than we think.

The fact remains, though, that you can get pregnant on the pill even without a "planned accident."
 

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Here is something ironic

Yesterday, I spoke to a very good friend of mine who has been ill for about a month. She finally went to the doctor to see what this "virus" was.

Her little "virus" is about 9 weeks old! Yep, she is pregnant. Her and her hubby have 3 teenage girls and are looking forward to the addition.

11 years ago, after the birth of her third daughter, she had a tubal ligation (her tubes tied). Imagine the surprise.

I guess what really has me most shocked is that her doctor spoke as if he has seen it happen before and he wasnt too surprised.

My friend, now 44 yrs old, has always been very fertile, they got pregnant the first time they tried with each of their girls.

I guess if a woman's body wants to make a baby, it is going to make baby.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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... Can you say angry AFC???

Better yet, keep it up then can you say "angry banned AFC?"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by ShortTimer
You better stop talking about Geo like that or diablo will take disciplinary actions against you.
I'm talking about you chump. You're coming off as a huge AFC.
 

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Originally posted by prosemont
I'm talking about you chump. With all that anger about women, you seem like you've taken it up the ass more than a few times by some chick with a strap-on. You're coming off as a huge AFC. ahahaha.
I was flaming Geo... so now you are calling Geo a woman!

Which is accruate since he's taking it in the ass like a b!tch for that whoring sow he's marrying.

Cheers beotch!
 

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Re: I know you!!

Originally posted by SheDevil
Shorttimer - weren't we once married???
Haha.

I remember that guy... he was out of his damn mind too.
 

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"Which is accruate since he's taking it in the ass like a b!tch for that whoring sow he's marrying."

Shortimer, I sure hope you're fu*cking kidding!!! Don't you ever come on one of my threads disrespecting Pen like that, biitch!
SB:mad:

P.S. Whistler, yes we know. But it's HIGHLY unlikely.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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