"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sex without Alcohol

HolyG

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Hey, it's your boy Holy G back again with a new topic.

Is it LIKELY (it is possible, I know) to lay a chick without pling her with booze? Say you invite her over to watch a movie and everything's going right...I need to work on my game more, but there's this HB8 i want to get with real quick.

Except I don't drink.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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blinkwatt

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ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE, women normally use drinks as their excuse to have fun(sex),that is just their way of trying to make society think they aren't a slut. If they are digging you enough they will do anything not to lose you.
 

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umm yea .. I've done it right after workin a girl up at a movie theater. you just gotta make the moves, but it takes a lot of kino to get to that point - just keep going after it at blasting through that LMR
 

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Chicks that want to be with you don't need any encouragement to have sex. If you've laid the ground work with sexual tension, then by all means make your move. But there is no magic game or line that will make her drop her panties if she's not feeling you.

If you use booze to get her, it'll let her use that as an excuse. So unless you're in Cancun, lay some groundwork.
 

Paintballguy

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Pappadapolis said:
Chicks that want to be with you don't need any encouragement to have sex. If you've laid the ground work with sexual tension, then by all means make your move. But there is no magic game or line that will make her drop her panties if she's not feeling you.

If you use booze to get her, it'll let her use that as an excuse. So unless you're in Cancun, lay some groundwork.
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you dont need alcohol to bang chicks...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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amoka

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As a matter of fact, most of the chicks I got laid did not involve alcohol at all. Unless for those one-night stands from the club. To enjoy sex, avoid vodka and use water. And remember, Kino is the key.
 
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