"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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addidasss

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have you ever gone back to your x that you broke up and try to have sex with her again. if so what is the best thing to say?

I'm thinking of saying,

"for some reason, i've always been thinking of you. even though i don't think we will be good together, i still miss you and want you... do you feel the same way?"


What do you think of these words? i want to say it at the right moment as a way of getting close to her. i think with my x, there's still that possible chance of the lust to rekindle.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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its complicated, it may or may not work.

In my opinion if you plan stuff like that or plan lines its not gonna work... you adidasss sound desperate and very needy for her.



Back in november 2004 when i broke with an ex all i did was cut all the contact, i didnt try anything eventough i liked the way that girl handeled sex.

weeks later she was the one that contacted, i had even moved to another town and she went looking for me since she didnt had my new number. I didnt try any lines, i guess she just missed the good times in bed with me, we became f. buddys after that.


So the bottom line is, no matter how many lines you try to fvck her again, if she dosent miss your d!ck shes not be ammoused. Just think about it, to her you are just gonna be one of 1000 afc guys that wanna fvck her... or do you think youre the only one, what does that line make you different from the others?

Just relax, play with her, tease her, but do these on all girls you know not just on ''the'' ex.
 

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i still see my x when my group of friends get together or throw party. i tried to get back with her but she says no. then on holloween, i totally ignored her and had fun with other people and enjoying myself. then she kind of acted nice to me. i don't want to assume she wants me back. she may be just nice because she doesn't want me to feel hurt or feel sorry for me. i hope that's not how she feels for me. i just enjoy myself and ignored her.

what should i do? should i kino her and dance with her or should i just continue to ignore her and short answer her if she asks me
questions of how my day and how i'm doing?

have you got such experience?
 

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*hits PLAY on ghetto blaster*

I gotta warn you,
Max don´t have sex with your ex
It will make you life complex
My Max, baby take it easy
Max don´t have sex with your ex
It will knock you off your legs
Oh Max, stay cool and just relax



Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
 

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Sex with your ex is an excuse to not sarge other girls.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by aftershock
Sex with your ex is an excuse to not sarge other girls.
Disagree.

I am boinking a few girls as I write this. Its good but thing is human nature is a *****. What we cant have, we want. Following that reasoning, yeah I would love to bang my ex's brains out and I plan on doing just that. The sex was good and I know she is a freak, so I am going to give it a try.

My plan is basically to just call her ass up in the middle of the night, say hi...how are you...blah blah and say hey, wanna come over? If she says no thanks, **** it, oh well. Whats the loss?

Pimpdatass
 

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Yeah, it's a very risky tight rope.

I just made out with one of my ex's (in my most recent FR) and I'm undecided if I should turn her into a FB. I know I could **** her silly, but I don't know if I want too/should. Plus to be honest I don't really want to outright pursue her, though I suppose if she starts calling me again and asking to hang out then I might turn her into a FB.

Though if you do, I wouldn't use that. Just run normal routine on her. Generally if she's still talking to you, not in an LJBF way, then she's still attracted to you in a way. So it shouldn't be to hard to lay her.
 

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Move on. Wanting sex with your ex ??? move on man !!! their much hotter girls out their.
 

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If you broke up with her, it shouldn't be hard. I did that with a girl I broke up with two years before this spring. Took me an evening. I was C+F and unafraid of escalation - that's the easiest thing about getting with an ex. But I don't recommend it. It's a waste of your time. Go meet someone new!
 

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"we aren't dating but we sure did set if off in bed huh?"

I prefer not to go back to ex's for sex but typically if one calls me just to say hello then I'll drop a line like that...If she wants it she'll let me know if not then whatever. The next sex is just around the bend.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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