sex with the chick, now how to proceed

[boynamedsue]

yeay, my first post. a friend recomended me this site and ive been looking and reading on this forum for a long time now and this site is great...

now i have my own situation. Ive been dating a girl off and on for a long time now. we just got into contact recently. shes mentioned that shes loving the single life, meeting different people and such. we decided to see eachother last night. she cooked us dinner last night and we watched a movie. on the couch i initiated some kino which she did not deny, however she still didnt seem receptive towards it. she kept saying we shouldnt do it, and i know thats why you came over. needless to say we had sex. awesome sex. weird thing though, even though she came 3 times, she said she felt nasuea. im hoping it was from the food.

here is where i need advice/ feedback. in the past, when we had sex she wanted me to stay the night. last night was not the case. in addition to her saying we shouldnt have done it, the nausea, and the not wanting me to stay the night is this all bad?? i mean we did have sex; thats got to be a good thing right? (in terms of her liking me) unless she was just horny. is there a way i can find out how she sees me without asking directly? does she see me as fb, potential ltr, or nothing?

and please not reponses about oneitis. i am very happy being single and have been single for over 3.5 years. thanks guys

 

[sodbuster]

Sometimes they play that game to see if you "care about them as a person" instead of a lay. Or she's dating someone else. Who knows,but chances are 50-50-you are done with her.

 

[Falcon25]

she's dating someone else..........

 

[jophil28]

Who initiated this recent contact ?

 

[boynamedsue]

We both have been in contact but this recent meeting was me initiating it. She offered the dinner and me the movie

 

[boynamedsue]

any feedback? im thinkink of initiating contact in the next couple days