"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sex with strangers met online.....

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I am using a online dating site for fun. This 34 years old woman messaged me and asked me if I want to **** her and lick her *****. I am 22 years old. I do not mind having sex wiht older women. But I dont know where she has been. I am afraid to get nasty disease from her if I lick her. Do you guys think ****ing strange people is a bad idea?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It doesn't matter where you meet someone, whether it's online, at a bar, club, the STD risk is the same. I know where are coming from. I have a hard time putting my mouth on a stranger's psvvsy no matter where I met her because I have this fear of getting oral herpes and warts there if she has HPV or genital herpes. Actually, I have never gave oral, but am not a virgin. I think I'll only do oral on a gf and I know she doesn't have anything for sure and we are exclusive.
 

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nice.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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SilverProphet said:
I am using a online dating site for fun. This 34 years old woman messaged me and asked me if I want to **** her and lick her *****.
Did you get his number?
 

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I think you are 22 going on 12. Don't be so gullible. Don't sleep with an American broad unless she agrees to go get tested for HPV. HPV will get you even if you practice "safe" sex. God how I love those three magical letters :rock:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Here is your info for the day

sparky0000 said:
I think you are 22 going on 12. Don't be so gullible. Don't sleep with an American broad unless she agrees to go get tested for HPV. HPV will get you even if you practice "safe" sex. God how I love those three magical letters :rock:

HPV... human papiloma virus is really harmless for men, worst it can do is cause (as the name describes) a papiloma, which is your common wart :)

however, in a girl, it can cause cervcal dysplasia which may lead to cervical cancer. HENCE, why all women get their annual pap smear..... Pap smear tests for dysplastic cervical cells which are caused like 98% of the time by HPV...

Now you know... if we get cure for HPV, no need for pap smears ;)
 

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ERRRR... wow I didnt know such disease like HPV. I am scared of having sex with escort and sluts now. I cannot find a good girlfriend since I dont want to committed to anyone right now. Also I am sick of getting played by *****es. Believe or not I was once really naive guy who truly want to love someone. So what should I do? No escort no sluts, no gf no sex?
 

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thinbk u shud tender ur application tot he monks....or the buddhists,lol
 

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Kerpal said:
Any girl you meet anywhere could have STDs. It's just a chance you take.

Anyway, online sites are a waste of time, there are like 500 men for every woman on them, and most of the women are fatties. There are also tons of gay guys who message people pretending to be women so you will send them pictures.
I don't think gay guys would need to pretend to be a hot babe on an internet chat site to get photos of hetrosexual guys.
If they wanted these photos it would be much easier for them to do a quick search on google or yahoo then save them to their pictures file like I often do with photos of hot babes.
Millions of gays worldwide have the internet in their homes these days, their are thousands of various chat rooms that cater for these guys, I can't see any reason why they would have to pretend to be a hot babe to get a photo from some unknown hetrosexual guy who might be ugly anyway.
In saying this I think this person who has messaged him is a guy, though I think it is some hetrosexual guy who is just mucking arround and having some fun pretending to be a hot babe, as this happens alot.
If this really is a woman I wouldn't touch her because she would have been fvcked by lots of guys if she is 34 and chatting like a slvt with guys whom she has never met, only eat her pvssy if you want a blister on your tongue.
 

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yeah but im sure gay guys enjoy the challenge of getting a straight mans picture.
its lyk the saying "girls want something even more if they cant have it"
as gay guys are women on the inside, i think it applies to them aswell
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I live in Nevada, and believe it or not, the cleanest safest girls are the licensed hookers. Here's how they stay disease free. (not saying its foolproof, but its the safest you can be)

When you're with someone new, ALWAYS take a shower together. Wash each others "area's" with antibacterial soap good. When you're naked, examine her pvssy closely. If you're skeched out about going down, either dont do it, use a dental dam (which I have never done, cuz it seems wierd), or just lick the outside areas and dont stick your tongue inside. It will still turn her on fiercely. Use a condom, obviously. When you're done, rinse your mouth with listerine, and take another shower, or at least wash your privates with antibacterial soap.

That's as safe as you can get, and thats how licensed hookers do it, and from what I understand, they hardly, if ever, catch anything.
 

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Yea, Ive been on adultfriendfinder and there are two choices.


A) You trust that other person is watching it.

or

B) You require testing (which is free at most places).



Let me tell you, testing takes time and emberacement, and most people are loosers on those sites. There are very few swingers, mostly people that cant get layed otherwise, I got that from the experience level they have. So, if you go B route you wont get as much responses.

Basically I went A route and hoped for the best, you dont use protection for oral, and you use protection when fvcking. Inspect her before licking her, play around, look for rashes and sores.
 
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