Sex with my girlfriend

[Arky]

Me and my girfriend were both virgins and started having sex almost two months ago. The problem is that she doesn't really enjoy it. She likes whatever we do before actual intercourse, and she loves when I finger her, especially when I touch her in a precise point, a couple of centimeters inside and up (probably the G-spot). She gets immense pleasure when I finger her but she never had an orgasm. Also, I extensively searched for her ****oris but I never found it! Maybe it's so small that is't hidden under the skin? When I touch her where her cl1t should be, she only feels slight pain, and there's nothing that looks like a cl1t there.
When it gets to penetration, she feels much pleasure only when I go really really fast, but I can't do it for long times. The rest of the time she doesn't feel much, and at times she seems almost bored. Also sometimes she feels pain because her vagina is a bit tight. We always have sex in the missionary position and she's reluctant to change it, but I'm slowly persuading her into trying other positions that may be more stimulating. Do you have any tips on how to stimulate her G-spot during intercourse, and how to make her feel the same pleasure she feels when I finger her?
Also any tips on finding her cl1t?

Edit: maybe should be moved in the "Anything Else" forum?

 

[Quiksilver]

Try putting her @ss up on a pillow, your story reminds me of a girl I was with last year. She started yawning while I was fvcking her missionary .

Here are some tips that have helped me in the past:

1. put a pillow under her ass while fvcking missionary, gives better angle.
2. more foreplay
3. use some lube
4. be more aggressive/forceful(some girls like to be manhandled in the sack, and doing so gives them emotional stimulation as well as physical, which actually does make a difference, from my experience).

And yeah, this thread does belong in AE.

Thread moved.

 

[Acq]

Also, I extensively searched for her ****oris but I never found it!

your lack of experience is obvious here..

one of my first GF's was also virgin and it took her a while to start enjoying sex.. One day we tried a new very interesting position and suddenly she almost had an orgasm, as time went by she became more and more interested in vaginal penetration and eventually she was willing to have sex like once every hour her orgasms were unbelievable..

try this position, girls love it:

she lies on the bed, back is up, with her face and breasts against the bed, her legs are slightly spread, you get on her and screw her from behind... one of her hands can stimulate the ****oris too.

your freshly unverginized gf might learn to enjoy this one.

 

[Hooligan Harry]

How does her father feel about this?

 

[speakeasy]

try this position, girls love it:

she lies on the bed, back is up, with her face and breasts against the bed, her legs are slightly spread, you get on her and screw her from behind... one of her hands can stimulate the ****oris too.

your freshly unverginized gf might learn to enjoy this one.

That's my fav position.

To the original poster. You should try eating her out. If she can't get an orgasm from that, she's got some problems. If you need some how-to lessons, watch this: http://www.youporn.com/watch/200577/*****-eating-lesson/

 

[trd323]

She is new to everything. Give her some time to really enjoy it.

Foreplay is what you need to get good at. trying different positions is cool, but to have amazing sex with a girl you will need to get her very comfortable. I f I were you I would just makeout, kiss, and progress from there. If at anytime you feel she is getting closed off or uncomfortable. Tell her its ok, and just being with her is enough. Put absolutely no pressure on her.
The **** is at the very top of the vagina and hides under a hood, pull the hood back and there should be a small or large "ball"

TAKE YOUR TIME.

 

[Bible_Belt]

She gets immense pleasure when I finger her but she never had an orgasm


Practice makes perfect for both of you. When she is close to cvmming, have her lie on her back, and move your head down to about boob level. This moves your arm down so you can finger her with a straight wrist, which is how you get your fingers deep inside her. Use two fingers in a "come here" motion and rub against that spot up against her pelvic bone, which is upward if she is lying on her back. Part of it is also mental for her, so don't be too hard on yourself. Just keep practicing.

 

[Ingeniarius]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=16888

Read this. It's an SS classic.