"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Okay guys, ive only had sex with my gf once, its not been that long. Anyway she said that she wnated to have sex this weekend but she would be on her period and she takes birth control pills she would be taking the diffrent kind for this one week, so i figure hey what a great chance to show some control. I tell her "hey yeah i think we can wait a week, it will be safer that way." It shows im not that sex hungry anyway and that I like her for who she is and not her genitals, the reason for the existance of DJ'. Dj's want sex and thats it most of them I think. I realized that all that nice guys ish doesnt work, I want to be a DJ so I can be in a LTR, and find that gurl that will be by my side, yeah yeah all that luvy dovy crap, i want it. But you first have to earn it, being all those DJ qualties.

So my question is, that she wants to have sex, next weekend, that was last weekend when I said it wud be safe. SO i figure why not continue with the theme of control and confidence and tell her this week that "i dont want to this week, but I promise next week"

sounds good?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thx

Yeah i was thinking that also, that maybe it might just hurt me in the end. Ill think about it, but thanks for your quick answer, its definetly good advice.
 
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You two have already decided you're going to do it next weekend...play it up! Make it an event to look forward to. Drop references to it here and there.

Withholding it from her can backfire. Women often interpret lack of interest in sex as the guy not being attracted to her. So instead of her thinking "wow, what great restraint he has!", it'll be "why isn't he attracted to me?" She could very well end up quite insecure and pissed at you.

Self-control is being able to accept a "no" when she doesn't want to have sex, without begging, whining, and acting like a child who's favorite toy has been taken away.

If you want to show restraint, do it during the foreplay. Drag it out, build the anticipation to the point where she's begging for you to take her.
 
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want to be a DJ so I can be in a LTR, and find that gurl that will be by my side, yeah yeah all that luvy dovy crap, i want it. But you first have to earn it, being all those DJ qualties.
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How about this:

Stop worrying so much about her - and just fvck her already.

If you want sex have sex.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tease her with it a bit. Tell her you have a headache, but in a way that she knows you're making it up....


If you want a LTR with a girl, one of the best things you can do is make it so YOU are the one deciding when and where you have sex, not the sterotypical reverse. The girl will go bananas when she finds out you're not handing it out like Pez, and will have sex with you anytime, anywhere. This is an excellent opportunity to set this up.

One thing, though. For this to work, when it does happen, make it good!
 
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Also - this set date to have sex deal is just not enticing.

"How's 7:48, Friday for you?"

-> Another reason to postpone to a later time, IF she's a good girl, of course. This talk of backfire is nonsense.
 
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Hmm. Ic, all ur opinions are good. Im not setting an EXACT date but since her parents are tough, its hard to get that kind of time, so we kinda plan ahead. And yeah i know, being in control of the sex makes u def in control of the relationship. And no sex is not what i want, sex can wait, im not hungry for it, I wanna make sure she knows that Im the man and in control, and im not gonna salavate for sex everytime she starts to ring her bell.

So yeah, ill def make it good, and u guys are right, if i hold out on her now I could mess it up so i guess ill do what i gotta do :)
 
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seems like i read somewhere that the more you have sex , the less likely it is to get pregnant.

the new sperm kills the old sperm

and your body builds an immunity

however dont take my word, i have 4 kids :cheer:
 
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I had sex with my last girl while she had her period. It was the best sex we ever had, she was like an animal. Wasn't that messy either.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by MoonieTX
I had sex with my last girl while she had her period. It was the best sex we ever had, she was like an animal. Wasn't that messy either.
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i read in maxim that when girls are the honriest
 
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