"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sex with cousin

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What are some views on this? Sex with cousin, daughter of your moms cousin.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Totally fine, go for it. Also try to fvck your mom and your sister also. And while you're at it, try nailing your grandma as well!!
 

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sexysuave said:
Totally fine, go for it. Also try to fvck your mom and your sister also. And while you're at it, try nailing your grandma as well!!
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Have the discipline of mind to educate yourself beyond the abilities of many to understand, and you shall become a MAN who will intrigue women with mystery and infinite smarts.

Lol..

I'll admit I've have crushes on distant cousins when I was young, never went for itm to many other options
 

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I won’t comment on different cultures and customs, but to me anything blood related is just plain wrong; not due to religious or other beliefs, just the idea of having sexual intercourse with a family member, as distant as it may is not something I can accept.

I know that somewhere down the line we all related, but there are so many girls out there that you won’t see at family reunions; cast your rod and go fishing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah, crush and lust. Especially when the ***** is looking at you like she wants to fak. I had to jerk off 3 times today to get the idea out of my mind. When I'm not horny I sham upon the very though of it, but when my **** is hard it's a very different story. It's like I loose my brains when I'm horny.
 

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I really doubt that the OP is 30 years old.

However, there is the "forbidden" aspect of cousin-sex that turns many people on (including famous people). It looks fine right now, but what about when they get old? it will be awkward no doubt.
 

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Do it. pvssy.
 

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Nah I'm not gonna do it. It was a stupid though to begin with. I came here to get a straight bearing on things.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First of all she is not technically your cousin. She would be your third cousin if not mistaken. You do your research on this one to confirm i'm not even sure ;)

Is it illegal? In most states it's only illegal if it's your cousin (daughter of your direct aunt/uncle). Any cousins past that it's ok to even marry in most states. You two are pretty far removed i'm sure you could get married in all 50 states so there's nothing illegal about it.

Is it morally wrong to have secks with cousins?:
It's allowed (and encouraged) in the Bible and that was for actual cousins. In your case you are far more removed genetically than actual cousins since you would be a third cousin or whatever. The only forbidden secks in the Bible is homosexual sex/siblings/parents/bestiality/secks with the wife of your brother/another man's wife (anything I miss?).

Secks with cousins is not forbidden but was encouraged by God in a few cases. So if you go by the Bible for morals there's nothing wrong with cousin secks no matter what anyone tells you.

10% of the world's population are cousin marriages. It's a fairly common thing everywhere except here I guess. It was also common here in the west till the laws were changed not too long ago from what I understand. Marriages between cousins tend to last. I guess it's due to the actual family connection. You already have sort of a bond with them.

Personally I see nothing wrong with it. Secks with an actual cousin (daughter of direct aunt or uncle) would be a little too close genetically in my opinion but anything after that I see nothing wrong with it.
 

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Marriages between cousins tend to last. I guess it's due to the actual family connection. You already have sort of a bond with them.

An ex of mine was from the Caribbean, and two of her cousins eloped. The guy happened to have US citizenship, so he joined the Air Force and they traveled the world. That was about 35 years ago, and they are still together.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's because of the hornyness and a taboo that kinda makes you wanna go for it. I do have a hot cousin like that too, needless to say we did some weird things as kids kinda like "show me your pee pee, I ll show you mine". Cousins fall in love with each other all the time and sex does happen especially during early teens, but I bet it does feel shamefull after the deed is done. ****k says yes, but the brain says no way Jose.
 

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Heh, I actually tried to do this with a cousin of mine several years ago. I must have been 16 and just super horny.

She was pretty cute. Thank God, she didn't let anything happen.
 
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