Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sex with a virgin

jobluek

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Hey guys,

I'm fairly inexperienced with sex and just started dating a girl who is a virgin, and was hoping a few of you can help me out.

She's an awesome girlfriend and since this is a new thing, we're really into each other. I try to be open and vocal about sex but she's extremely shy. We've gone down on each other and seem to be pretty compatible. Whenever we're messing around, she soaks her panties before I can even get her pants off.

That being said, she's very nervous about having sex. Things were heating up today and it was about to be game on, but right when I grabbed a condom she instantly went dry and clammed up. She said she wanted to but was just really nervous.

Do you guys have any recommendations on how I can make things smoother? She suggested we have a bottle or two of wine next time she comes over. Anything else I can do or should say to her? Also, I've never had sex with a virgin, is there anything I should expect that doesn't happen with more experienced girls?

I hope that you all can understand that this is a sensitive topic and respond respectfully.

Thank you
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Real Talk

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jobluek said:
Hey guys,

I'm fairly inexperienced with sex and just started dating a girl who is a virgin, and was hoping a few of you can help me out.

She's an awesome girlfriend and since this is a new thing, we're really into each other. I try to be open and vocal about sex but she's extremely shy. We've gone down on each other and seem to be pretty compatible. Whenever we're messing around, she soaks her panties before I can even get her pants off.

That being said, she's very nervous about having sex. Things were heating up today and it was about to be game on, but right when I grabbed a condom she instantly went dry and clammed up. She said she wanted to but was just really nervous.

Do you guys have any recommendations on how I can make things smoother? She suggested we have a bottle or two of wine next time she comes over. Anything else I can do or should say to her? Also, I've never had sex with a virgin, is there anything I should expect that doesn't happen with more experienced girls?

I hope that you all can understand that this is a sensitive topic and respond respectfully.

Thank you
I've dealt with this before.

Losen her up with the fingers, to the point where she enjoys it when you can thrust away with two.

It might take more than one session for her to loosen up, so just tell her to relax. Its not your D so it won't freak her out if shes comfortable with you.
 

Falcon25

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I'm going to make this as simple as I can;

Alcohol equals sex
Food equals sleep

Bottle of wine, a movie, and make sure you clean up the blood stains.
 

Kailex

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Try to be gentle.
Don't rabbit fvck her. It WILL hurt her in some fashion.

And expect it to suck.

Wine is a good solution, but don't go getting drunk.
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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You have gotten some pretty good advice. Use lots of foreplay, go slow, and expect some blood.


Your post had some unintentional humor.
jobluek said:
We've gone down on each other and seem to be pretty compatible.
Anyone else find this sentence funny? I know what you mean but the way you worded it sounds like its a pleasant and convienent surprise that you have a d1ck and she as a vagina.


jobluek said:
She suggested we have a bottle or two of wine next time she comes over.
Thats a good idea but a glass or two will do it
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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