"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sex with a virgin...

Drewskie

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How many of you guys have done it? From my experience, most guys have either had a few, or none at all. I had sex with a virgin once, and before that I thought it would be the greatest thing in the world, but it was nothing special at all. Not tighter than anyone else, or anything like that. What is all the hype about getting with a virgin anyway, just the idea of being the first one?? is it supposed to make you feel like a pimp or something? I was talking with a due yesterday and he was bragging about how he had like 5 virgins, and I don't see the point. thoughts???
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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speakeasy

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I would love to deflower a girl. First off you know you won't catch anything, and secondly, it's in man's nature to go places no other man has been. That's why dudes have walked on the moon when there's no real reason to be there, or explored caves and climbed Everest. We just like being the first to do sh-t and go where no man has been before, be it between some virgin's legs or to the bottom of the ocean.
 

Drewskie

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speakeasy said:
I would love to deflower a girl. First off you know you won't catch anything, and secondly, it's in man's nature to go places no other man has been. That's why dudes have walked on the moon when there's no real reason to be there, or explored caves and climbed Everest. We just like being the first to do sh-t and go where no man has been before, be it between some virgin's legs or to the bottom of the ocean.
Fair enough, that seems like the only reason. Thing is, is it even possible to find one at our age?? Doubtful.
 

speakeasy

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Drewskie said:
Fair enough, that seems like the only reason. Thing is, is it even possible to find one at our age?? Doubtful.
A girl that hits our age and is a virgin is either religious and saving it for marriage, or so ugly that she's unf*ckable. Hmm, no wonder then that some dudes are willing to pay millions to bang a virgin. An attractive virgin that is no longer a teen is a hot commodity.
 

SmoothTalker

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Good question. Never done it, but I would want to given the chance. I imagine it would be nothing special physically, more of a mental thing like speakeasy says. Though, I am already past the age when most attractive girls not waiting for marriage have lost it, so if it never happens, no big deal. I think it's the sort of thing that you experience if you start having sex early when girls your age are still virgins. Otherwise you need to either be into much younger girls (I'm not) or by chance find one of the few older attractive women that still are for whatever reason.

On the other hand, a few months ago my girlfriend had this weird muscle cramp in her ***** that made it extremely tight to the point where it was literally difficult to get it in even with tons of wetness and lube, and it was painful for her to the point we had to stop. Seemed to resolve itself a few hours later. Its never happened to me before or since, but based on that one experience, I don't know if I would even have the patience for a virgin, and I don't like causing pain beyond the rough sex threshold. That was the most virgin like sex I've had and there was nothing appealing about it, just frustrating.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Leporello

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I've done it once. It was just awkward. I couldn't give her what she wanted because she didn't even know what she wanted.

Though it is a nice feeling that you're the first guy she's ever been willing to fvck.
 
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