"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sex with a shirt on?

TIC

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Not that I've been getting laid, but I have a New Years Eve Party coming up.

I've got one big problem though: I was diagnosed with Pityriasis Rosea by a dermatologist yesterday. It took three doctors to come in and stare at me like some kind of alien . Was scared sh*tless.

But yea, I've got spots all on my torso. So if I get laid, I can't take my shirt off in front of a girl. Not for a couple of months actually

For those of you who get laid, how often do you have your shirt off while doing so? I'm pretty sure most girls require it. Could one get away with doing it with a shirt on?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yachtie

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i have a couple times, like maybe twice, usually when in a rush. if it's a role play or semi-public place, it's almost like you're doing it somewhere you're not supposed to, so you stay partially dressed.
 

rtrev64

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I cant recall last time I did a girl with a shirt..once I think in a car, at a party..otherwise, my birthday suit always.
 

SandHawk

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Nothing wrong with banging with a shirt on. It once saved my life(literally) as I was banging an girl in the London house of her strict conservative American parents. While I had a towel in her mouth, was choking her and slaming my manhood into her, her mum came down. I had just enough time to jump into my pants but since I still had my shirt on she didn't even notice.

But, hear me out though: I have severe skin rashes which cover my back, arm pits, insides of my elbows and knees(front and back) and places that constantly change place. Don't try to conceal them or make a fuzz about them. Most girls don't really care as long as you don't make a fuzz about it. My skin rash is pretty bad at times, and I've yet to find a girl that made a problem about it or didn't call me back after the sex.
 

Mike32ct

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Doing it with a shirt on is uncommon, but probably not a big deal. I would wear a button-down dress shirt with a clean t-shirt underneath. Having sex with a button-down on is a little weird, but in a t-shirt is fine. Make the foreplay extra hot and passionate so it sends the unspoken message, "I wanna have you right here, right now. I don't give a flying f&ck that my t-shirt is still on." Then strip down to your t-shirt and do her.

Just make sure you take your socks off. (I think I mentioned this in another post.) I fooked one girl with my socks on. She COMPLETELY flipped out about it and told me it was REALLY bad sex ettiquette. I didn't think it was a big deal, but she really tore me a new one about it lol.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ENIGMA16

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As long as it's not contagious then who cares, if she is creeped out by it then tell her to fvck off, stop being so insecure.

Otherwise you could just get a bloje you usually don't take your shirt off for that.
 

Ease

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I have a friend who bangs girls with eczema all over him. Arms, torso, legs.
 
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