sex w/ wife vs FB

[MacAvoy]

Question for you men involved in LTR's. Would you treat a potential wife the same way in bed as you would some skank that you picked on at a bar?

On one hand, I feel like your life partner is not someone that is to be treated like a sex toy, but on the other hand, if your really that close, can't you share anything and everything?

My problem is I've had quite a succesful run of sexual encounters. I've had several group orgies, had girls lined up taking a row of cycks in the mouth, you name it, I've done it.

However theres some old favourites that you just like going back to. They start off small like busting a nut on her face, to going to the extreme, such as rape fantasy?

Do you think your wife deserved to be treated w/ more respect or should you be completely open w/ each other as Jerry Macquires fiance was?

 

[Desdinova]

Everyone's sexual tastes are different. If your wife likes rollplaying and doggystyle, would you be sexually satisfying if you fvcked her in missionary position as if sex was only a duty? Would you be respecting her by doing something she's not incredibly fond of?

 

[Bad_Lil'Pixie]

Who decides what is disrepectful?

What you and your lover/wife/girlfriend go for during intimacy is what you and her decide, no one can lay down your ground rules for you.

A wife can like sex on the edge, raunchy or even laced with a little pain and still be a good wife and a respected woman.

A husband can still adorn her in beautiful pearl necklaces and wonderful facials and be a good husband and a respected man.

The gold band doesn't make a woman 'holy' or a prude so don't expect her to act like it.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Originally posted by MacAvoy
Question for you men involved in LTR's. Would you treat a potential wife the same way in bed as you would some skank that you picked on at a bar?

On one hand, I feel like your life partner is not someone that is to be treated like a sex toy, but on the other hand, if your really that close, can't you share anything and everything?

After 9.5 years of marriage I can tell you that the best sex I've had with my wife has been when I've pushed the envelope with her. Women like it when you take charge sexually, it reminds them that you are confident enough to risk the possibility of disrespecting her.

I'm not suggesting you go out and look for orgies or 3-somes, but a slap on the ass or a good hard ride will communicate desire. Pin her hands down when you're hitting it. It's that hint of disrespect or even the confidence needed to attempt it that serves to whip her up into a lather. It's that "other chicks still want to fvck me and you'd better too" subconscious understanding that draws out that appreciation.

 

[Colossus]

The element of disrespect comes in when you do something she has expressed to you she dislikes, or something you know may be crossing the line. Everyone has different ideas of what is ok and what is not.

If both of you genuinely enjoy a particular activity, and there is no pressuring or judging on your part, it's all good.

 

[STR8UP]

I don't care WHO it is....wife, g/f, or one night stand. Why would you consciously strive to treat one differently than the other?

I have to admit that I have pushed the envelope MUCH farther on my one nighters than I have in the early stages f a relationship, but I can guarantee you that most of the time it wasn't to my benefit to have held back with the women who I actually liked.

Pull her hair, slap her ass, and tell her how hard your going to fukk her and that she'd better enjoy it and she'll give you the ride of your life. Women love it when a man takes charge.

The good thing about my last g/f was that she was all of 5 feet tall and 95 lbs soaking wet, so it was easy to pick her up and flip her up, down, and sideways. She even mentioned that the first time we had sex was "really hot" because I picked her up and carried her into the room "bumping into walls and stuff" on the way in.

They eat that sh!t up.

 

[MightyMate]

Thing with wife is that You don do stuff that she doesnt like. And if i sleep with girl 1 time, i do what i like and dont care about her at all. Wife has to be a ***** in bed anyways. I **** mine as crazy.

 

[MacAvoy]

Alright guys, thanks for the insight. I feel like I got some truly useful advice on the board today. Although there are some things that I get my skank friends to do that I would never get my wife to do (suck off my friends). But I can now see what is and isn't acceptable.

 

[MightyMate]

Yes Your gf is only Yours.

 

[KarmaSutra]

It's the animalistic nature of sweaty, musky lust that gets thier hearts and ****s to flitter flutter.

I took what I wanted from my ex-wife after we were divorced when she discovered I'd been intimate with other women. Never in our entire 5 years of marriage did I sac up and take her the way she needed. Only when I wanted to "go balls deep" did we have that passion. I showed her ass the door immediately thereafter. I didn't give a good fvck one way or the other whether or not it's what she asked for, it's what her body was saying that said it all.

The whole Madonna/Wh0re paradigm is fully intact and breathing.