===Sex Topics===

[j8snx1]

So how exactly do you bring up the topic of sex with the girl without sounding extremely random or sounding like a sex freak?
The bible or something else said trying using something like...

"So I read in this magazine, and these female models were interviewed about their favorite sex positions. What would you say is yours?"

Younger girls: They're innocent and it's hard to imagine myself talking about sex with them without them being either grossed out or disturbed. Is it really worth bringing that up with them?

My age/Older girls: They're mature enough to talk about it, but I'm not quite sure on how to bring sex topics up, which brings me to my question:

Can you post up/tell me your personal methods/experiences with bringing up the topic of sex with a girl or girls, and how long do you usually talk about it?

 

[Logen]

you just bring it up for god's sake. you just act like you talk about it all the time and it's normal. Talking about sex is not a social taboo. If you talk about sex in a confident and serious way then it shows your value, confidence, maturity, self control.

never:
use crewed language though, the kind of **** you would say to your guy friends.

i can have the first thing i say to a girl be about sex and as long as i don’t use crewed and imature language and act dominant and confident then it will work out. if i act like a horny high school loser then she will sense my neediness and insecurity.

THERE ARE NO LINES, IT'S ALL YOU.
just bring it up. simple as that. if you overthink it, then you have the wrong frame of mind and you have already lost.

i once asked a girl if she's a lesbian. she got all weirded out and a little angry, i busted her balls for being immature about it. i said i just wanted to know. and i was completely mature about it. i told her that a lot of women have lesbian tendencies and then i teased ehr a little. it all worked well. this was over AIM. now she sends me IM's instead of the other way around.

 

[So pimp its scary]

For me personnally, I'm a story teller by nature (or practise whatever), so I tell all sorts of stories, so I'll just start a story with :
"This story is more for adults... so try to not get offended."

Whoever said not to talk to the girl like she's one of the guys... that does depend on the girl.

I was with my buddy drinking on the street one night, and we see this girl across the street, so my friend yells to the girl.

Him : Yooooo Biiitch!!
Her : Who??? ME???
Him : YAAAaaa Yooouuu... Come Here!
her : okie

They start talking and he's swearing like theirs no tomorrow... we ended up going to a party with her and they ended up boning that same night.

 

[MightyMate]

Be straight.

 

[j8snx1]

Lol that girl must've been around for some time.

Anyway, what do you mean by "be straight."
Straight-forward about it,
Don't talk about gay material (literally, which is something I won't do)?

 

[The Juan and only]

I just bring it up whenever I feel like it. Act like its nothing and they will too.

I've said some pretty outrageous things and have harldy ever seen a girl get visibly offended. If it's unexpected then they'll usually just laugh.

note: I'm mainly talking about 17-18 year old girls...I don't have any experience with the older ladies.


However, If you can't bring yourself to do that then innuendo is a great way to introduce sex into the conversation.

A lot of sentances can be taken to have a second, sexual meaning - especially when she mentions the words hot, hard, screw, wood, etc (***/come is always a good one).

Example.

Just the other day a girl was telling me how she couldn't swim. I made fun of her about. Then she asked me If I could swim and I said "yes, I'm especially good at the breastroke" - which is an example of the innuendo i've been talking about.


I'm really tired so I hope that made sense.