"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sex to no sex but still hooking up?

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Been hanging out with this chick for a couPle months. She is a very typical slutty female who can't make decisions. Woul never wife her up, just enjoying amazing sex.

Anyway after a huge blow out I said some really mean things to her and she told me to never speak to her again. I didnt, but she contacted me a week later. We talked and she said she'd like to try it again, but doesn't trust me after the nasty stuff I said to her (understandable). He wants it to e more than just sex even though it won't ever be. We hang out and she tells me no sex for a while. She gives me head that night and the nex morning after resisting sex, although she was on her period. But we've had sex on her period before.

She tells me today we aren't going to have sex next time we hang out cuz she still can't trust me and get the stuffI said out of her head, but at times she still talks dirty through text.

Question is how can I get the lay tomorrow when we hang out? Im not going to waste time with her if I'm not getting laid so tomorrow is the final showdown. She seems pretty adamant, but I know other times he said no sex to me I was still able to get it. Seems much more difficult this time, although she's veryslutty and did give me head twice last week. I want the lay though.

Any tips here for when we hang out? Keep it sexual the whole time or play it aloof the while time? Whatcha think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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chuck her a few crumbs without being explicit, "you know we have a connection, we gravitate towards each other"..."sometimes this feels like fate" general vague sh!t do not elaborate any further, she will press you..what do you mean? etc etc turn it back on her ."dont you feel it?" then try and change the subject. as for s ex, just keep doing what your doing, she is a sl ut so she wil give it up at some point, if she says no, cool off then try again later, ger her to feel how hard you are and tell her "it misses you".
 
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Not desperate , but why not ask how to handle something? Perspective and additional experience are a good thing.
 
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An not desperate. Just tryin to work on certain aspects of my game. An who cares why not try to get some again? By far the best lay of my life. Would like to keep it goin
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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