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Hi guys,

I've only had 3 hookups and they were all incomplete, twice with the girl asking me to stop and once only making out with no penetration. I am good looking, tall, muscular and hot girls always chase me, but I am sexually inexperienced. I grew up in an environment where sex is a big taboo (shame, sin) and never had any sexual education, so my only sexual exposure was porn and later on escorts. I was able to learn game and understand women through the red pill community, but sex? I don't see any guide out there for what to do and what not to do, or the superior way of handling things. I would be grateful for any tips, guides or educational videos/websites you know of.

Thanks!

(Note: I now know that porn is terrible, so is addiction to masturbation and relying on escorts for immediate release. But I still don't know how I could be better in bed. It has nothing to do with confidence. Just technique.)
 

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Need to follow the vibe, its usually better to takes things slow than too fast.

Teasing is very good, touch her everywhere except the sensitive spot.
and when you get to sensitive spot touch it lightly and for a short period of time then increase gradually.
Women need a lot more mental stimulation.


Sometime its also hot af to got fast and recklessly but need to be perceptive as too when its the good time.
 

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Big subject. You can learn the mechanics with most any book and technique. You cant fake the emotional male part or dominance. Just throw her onto the bed a fuk her. You'll figure it out.
 

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Take it very slow. Women loooove that. They will either let you keep teasing or they'll hop on you and rip your clothes off. Personally I don't usually let that happen. I hold them down.

When you kiss pull away and kiss somewhere else. Bite her lip, pull it away and let go. Keep experimenting and watching how she reacts. Lick her neck in a tight circle with your tongue for example, then in a seductive voice ask her if she likes that. Kiss behind her ears, blow or whisper in her ear. Run your hands down between her legs and quietly whisper, 'do you like that?' in a confident manner(as if it's redundant and she's obviously going to say yes or simply moan). Grab a fist full of her hair and pull it, maybe she's into it. Have her straddle you and dry hump you while youre on the couch. Grab her ass, play with her tits, pinch and pull on her nipples, soft, hard, find out what she likes and take your time. Push her hips against you. When you find something that she says she likes, play around with it and see if you can get her moaning or telling you more things she likes.

Go slow and be comfortable with playing around with her. If she's making out with you she is putty in your hands. Lead the way, do what you feel like doing, tease yourself with her body. Tell her where to touch you that really turns you on. While kissing her gently put her hand on your c0ck. Let her play with it. Find what you like and what really gets you going. When you start to get really excited so will she.
 

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I know people highly recommend 2 girls teach sex. You can download it off piratebay, but It's like 13GB. I didn't get on with it as well as the sex god method. Both have good ideas though.
 

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I know people highly recommend 2 girls teach sex. You can download it off piratebay, but It's like 13GB. I didn't get on with it as well as the sex god method. Both have good ideas though.
Thanks! I looked up 2 Girls Teach Sex and it seems like exactly what I was looking for! I've just been struggling on how to download it. The Piratebay links I found were old. Any help?
 

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Thanks! I looked up 2 Girls Teach Sex and it seems like exactly what I was looking for! I've just been struggling on how to download it. The Piratebay links I found were old. Any help?
Might actually have to pay for it in that case, and I'd hazard doing that until you try it. Some of that stuff is just too ott and porn-like.

Sex god method is just a pdf so can't be that hard to download. And I think it gives a better all round view on having good sex.
 

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I'm definitely not the master guru on this site but I'd suggest trying to find an older/more experienced woman to help show you a thing or two. A lot of young women around your age or younger aren't going to take the lead and would expect men to know everything about sex. Also, a lot of young women are severely lacking in maturity so don't expect them to be all that understanding. There are plenty of attractive older women out there that would love to having fun in bed with a young man who is tall, attractive and fit. Don't ask me where you could meet them but it's an idea to consider.

Like you I was a late bloomer, in my case it was extreme, and when I was a teenager and in my early twenties I had 0 exposure to women, sex, dating, etc. A lot of the learning experiences that most people normally have had at those ages were completely no existent.

My first sexual experience was a couple years ago, she was quite a bit younger than me but I had mentioned my inexperience to her. Anyway, we were watching a movie and sitting on my couch and I initiated by caressing her thighs, she was wearing little denim shorts. From there I put my hand under her shirt and started playing with her nipples, which I noticed had gotten hard. I told her to take her top off, which she did, and then I played with them and sucked on them for a brief moment before I grabbed her by the hips, flipped her onto her back and mounted her. She still had her shorts on but she instinctively spread her legs and wrapped them around my back. I played with her ***** for a bit but she wouldn't let me penetrate her though.
 

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rub the tip hard as possible right under her belly button upwards, gets instant orgasms
 

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This is a good thread. Most of the advice is pretty good.

I'm a bit older than most on SS, so here are a few things I've learned and can pass along:


1- Slower is better especially with a new partner. Remember this: women are like ovens and men are like blowtorches. So, go s-l-o-w in your actions, caress, whisper, give her angel kisses (everywhere), there's no rush. Most women don't like to be put on their head and jack hammered with a new partner. You can work some tricks like this in down the road to spice things up.

2- Playful teasing works well, even better once you get to know someone. Go down on her, kiss her below the waist get really close to her vagina but slowly kiss next to it, use the tip of your tongue, explore, same with her breasts, get the idea?

3- Hold off on intercourse for as long as you can. But once the main event does arrive, start slow and build up speed. Keep caressing her and kissing while you're in her.

4-Vary things a bit. Be very soft and gentle then flip her over (dominantly) put your hand firmly on the back of her neck and go harder for a few minutes, then ease up again and be softer, maybe rolling her on her side and kissing her a bit then going slower. Go missionary and choke her slightly, hold her arms down, then smile, ease up and kiss her really good while still thrusting.

5- Pull out once in a while, lay on her (don't crush her) so she can feel your erection on her, but not in her. Kiss her neck, ears, around her mouth but not her lips. Pretend you're going in for a kiss, then kiss the side of her mouth. So, now she can feel how hard you are and you won't kiss her on the mouth, this will drive her crazy.

6- Vary positions and speed. Do her missionary, go down on her (btw, learn this art--most guys have zero clue even as they get older) for a bit, back to missionary, vary the speed and intensity, nice and rough guy, keep things unpredictable and exciting. Get some Trojan lube. Makes things really fun and you and her won't get sore. Feels great too. Use when fingering and having intercourse.

7- Pop a small dose of Viagra with new partners. I only take 10mg and get very strong effects. I'm also in this small percentage where I can go--no kidding--sometimes and hour or more on it. Great for the woman but Viagra makes me lose some sensitivity and my orgasms aren’t as good. Many guys can experience performance anxiety because they (and some girls) think that life is like it is on Pornhub which just isn't true. Don't feel like you have to emulate the pro porn stars on there as most take mega doses of ED meds before a shoot and/or inject a drug directly into their penis (seriously!). Over-use can damage your penis and have bad side effects. Porn shoots can often take hours or days even though the movie is 10-20 minutes.

8- If you have a bad performance, the real test is how the woman responds. If she’s cool with it and laughs it off with you, she's probably worth seeing and spending time with. If she leaves in a huff or embarrasses you, kick her out and next her. Men aren't walking dildos. Boner killers: excess alcohol, smoking, anxiety, overweight, out of shape, some Rx meds. 90% of ED cases are psychological. The best ED drug is a sound body (weights and cardio) and a confident, positive outlook on life.

It takes practice. Watching some porn is ok. A lot of the bigger porn sites do have some instructional videos, search them. You can also check out the porn for women section, but I've seen some ridiculous stuff on that section too so beware.

Good luck, you'll get there.

~Dash~
 
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I'm definitely not the master guru on this site but I'd suggest trying to find an older/more experienced woman to help show you a thing or two. A lot of young women around your age or younger aren't going to take the lead and would expect men to know everything about sex. Also, a lot of young women are severely lacking in maturity so don't expect them to be all that understanding. There are plenty of attractive older women out there that would love to having fun in bed with a young man who is tall, attractive and fit. Don't ask me where you could meet them but it's an idea to consider.

Like you I was a late bloomer, in my case it was extreme, and when I was a teenager and in my early twenties I had 0 exposure to women, sex, dating, etc. A lot of the learning experiences that most people normally have had at those ages were completely no existent.

My first sexual experience was a couple years ago, she was quite a bit younger than me but I had mentioned my inexperience to her. Anyway, we were watching a movie and sitting on my couch and I initiated by caressing her thighs, she was wearing little denim shorts. From there I put my hand under her shirt and started playing with her nipples, which I noticed had gotten hard. I told her to take her top off, which she did, and then I played with them and sucked on them for a brief moment before I grabbed her by the hips, flipped her onto her back and mounted her. She still had her shorts on but she instinctively spread her legs and wrapped them around my back. I played with her ***** for a bit but she wouldn't let me penetrate her though.
Aren’t you a virgin?
 

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Good trick I picked up, go deep inside her, all the way, then rock back and forward from there. You don’t need big long strokes, just go all the way in, and take a couple inches out back n forth.

Dunno if it’s just the size and shape of my thang but I’ve given orgasms from it and it’s limited effort/work so you can maintain a good rhythm and speed for longer.

Also, take your time to enjoy it, to feel it, to see it. Touch and stroke as you fvck her. Moan, don’t be scared to make noises and talk dirty to her, “do you like that” is an easy go to, “whose pvssy is this” is another but that’s mainly for my own ego and enjoyment.
 

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If a girl wants you in her badly enough, it will happen even without any effort. Just go with the flow.
Sex tips. Missionary rocks. Look in her eyes. Talk dirty to her. Kiss her deeply. Titty play. Thumb her ****.
If you have a big **** like me. You never have to eat *****! And she’ll go down on you without reciprocation.
But don’t abuse it. Mostly she just wants to suck for a couple of minutes and then ride it.
Kiss nipples and earlobes. If you get tired, have her lay flat and you sideways. You can **** for days like this.
 
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