"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SandHawk

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Sandow said:
I think the idea behind the foot massage is that your increasing blood flow to her extremeties, or just blood flow in general. Studies are easily skewed, I don't believe this actually makes any significant changes at all. If it does make a difference its most likely very very small.
Actually, there is a very good scientific explanation to this. It has to do with the brain and how the areas that process touch are laid out in your brain. Each part in your body has a brain area designated to process the sensory information. Not sure about the name, but the brain areas responsible for your feet and genitals are on the extremities of the right side of this 'strip'(It's a linear area running front to back). The feet are the most right area, and the genitals are to the left of it.

What happens when you give a girl a good foot massage? You overload her brain with sensory information(feet are extremely sensitive), which leaks out to genital area and thus influences that area indirectly. This works both ways, I've had orgasms so intense that I could feel it in the soles of my feet. So if you really want to give her a great orgasm? F*ck her senseless, and when she's about to orgasm, start massaging her feet and keep on f*cking. I've had girls go spastic so intense.
 

Mr. Bond

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OamImrsNemo said:
Pillow right under her a$$...Youll hit the G-spot like a muther f^cker...
This.


Also, don't over-think. Do what comes naturally. Dominate her.
 

CarlitosWay

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I just pulled this one off recently and wow this chic went bonkers. After some nice spanking, fondling and kissing... I edged myself towards the end of the bed, put feet on floor. Grabbed her legs and straddled her over me (cow girl position, me facing up, right at her ***** and I enthusiastically went to town) She absolutely loved it and she got so into it she almost suffocated me at one point LOL :).....
 

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Have her lay facedown on stomach while you lay above her. She can have her legs either open or closed, its a very underrated position. Very dominate
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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