"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DanelMadr

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The seducing stuff here is great but I can't find here some decent info on how to be a sex god. Which in my opinion is VERY important for various obvious reasons.

So, if you can post some tips or links to any valuable info about sex, I'd much appreciate it and others as well, I guess.

Here are "my" tips:

Every girl is different but I figured out most of the girls love to be submissive so having a piece of scarf to blind her and/or bind her comes in handy. Also most of them get off on bit of exhibitionism, so make sure she is naked first.
Telling her "Now I can do whatever I want with you"...will make them drip wet through the mattress.

Giving her orgasm before you even penetrate will make them horny as hell.

Dependant on her clyt sensitivity...hold your hand on the mound pulling the hood exposing the clyt and also trapping the blood in there. Doing that it is a good tip to leave your tongue or hand slightly pressed on her clyt when she is orgasming - ONLY lightly. She might have longer or multiple one then.

And most important word....TEASE. Don't go there and start liking or fvcking, TEASE her.
Second most important word....JACKHAMMER. When she is squirming and trying to fvck her on her own, fvck her like jackhammer.

Hey and don't forget to slap the azz:whistle:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maxtro said:
Don't be a fool, cover your tool.
Nice tip. Very generous of you.

Do you cover it with condom or do you use a sock...maybe two?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thanks guys.

In the Sex God thread I added a rapidshare link to that ebook. Haven't read it tough yet. On a first look it looks good except the horrible "scientific" natural selection explanation :)

However I was hoping for some personal experience advice. But I guess it is too personal to share.
 

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I read somewhere that giving a girl a foot massage or making sure she has warm feet as opposed to cold feet will increase her chances of having an orgasm by 30%
 

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#40 - "Not thanking her: Don’t forget that you’re lucky to have that goddess in your life. Be sure to thank her with both words and actions."

No comment necessary...
 

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Pillow right under her a$$...Youll hit the G-spot like a muther f^cker... Or another favorite of mine... Start out doggy style then pusher her down roughly so that your laying flat on her and keep givin it to her you could even play with her **** while doing this then make her taste it...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Atom Smasher said:
#40 - "Not thanking her: Don’t forget that you’re lucky to have that goddess in your life. Be sure to thank her with both words and actions."

No comment necessary...

I misread that tip. Do not say 'thank you' after sex, I agree. Women hate that.
 

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I'm reading the Sex God Method now and it's pretty good. Nothing earth shattering here, I think we all know that a girl likes a guy to lead and take charge in the bedroom and show some dominance. However this author takes it to another level lol. I don't think I would do the things he suggests to a girl I recently met. Stuff like calling her your $lut, your wh0re, choking her from behind, slamming her against the door lol. But I get the idea...I'm reading about emotion right now, this is an obvious one, we all know girls get off on emotion. I think the combo of both dominance and emotion is key, like the author points out.
 

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Hakuna said:
I read somewhere that giving a girl a foot massage or making sure she has warm feet as opposed to cold feet will increase her chances of having an orgasm by 30%
Sounds like a crap statistic tbh. I can't speak for all women but how our feet are feeling is the last thing on our minds. At the end of the day, some enthusiastic tongue work will make us ***.. not a foot bath.
 

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I think the idea behind the foot massage is that your increasing blood flow to her extremeties, or just blood flow in general. Studies are easily skewed, I don't believe this actually makes any significant changes at all. If it does make a difference its most likely very very small.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think the idea behind the foot massage is that your increasing blood flow to her extremeties, or just blood flow in general. Studies are easily skewed, I don't believe this actually makes any significant changes at all. If it does make a difference its most likely very very small.
I would think its more like in the senses.

ex. when you suck on a womens ear most go crazy.

same with feet I believe there are many senses that will just shoot straight
up her spine.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
#40 - "Not thanking her: Don’t forget that you’re lucky to have that goddess in your life. Be sure to thank her with both words and actions."

No comment necessary...

Thanking a girl is about the most beta thing you can do, unless she ****ed your brains out then you should thank her, but letting her do that is a bit beta.

Sex in a way is about work, you are ****ing a girl, that is hard work, I usually get sweaty. Since you are penetrating you should be dominant, girls naturaly like this, move her around, be physically above her, doggy is super dominant.

If you are doing things right she will challenge you! "give it to me harder", "yeah I like that" she is thinking ...'good job little boy, I approve the work you are doing'. You see that is how she dominates you! This is why when a guy tells me his girlfriend never gives him HEAD! She is super in charge, getting head in the time you are fully dominant, that is the most respect a girl can give you. she is doing work for you and being submissive.
 

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paulamae said:
sex is my life condom is my protection
For HIV protection you need just a jar of gypsy tears ;)
 

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If the girls you have been with are also inexperienced, they would naturally think that anything other than "missionary" is somehow weird or kinky, because that's what they are shown in sex education. I'm afraid there is no way round this, until they eventually meet someone who takes away those inhibitions. If your emotions for someone are strong enough, you'll try anything! Don't worry though, it isn't your fault.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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